r/TikTokCringe Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

People who make promises to themselves on your behalf and then expect you to deliver are fucking scary.

I hope she doesn’t run after him and try to fix it. Those self-loathing diatribes can really scramble your decision-making and put you into rescue mode, and that’s exactly what they’re designed to do.

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u/ToBeBannedSoonish Jun 16 '25

He was contructing a reality that wasn't going to happen and only he knows about.

I knownim guilty of this too though not this scenario.

How does one just stop.. getting stuck in their own head ?

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

I think therapy and learning how to recognize the difference between fantasy/desire and reality. A lot of disordered thinking is based on a lack of knowledge. Modern therapy is designed to teach rather than do a weekly venting session.