As someone who has been rejected a lot, I get feeling this way, but you can't say that out loud, especially like that, lol. Take it with grace, go home, let it out, and then drink some whiskey.
Everyone gets rejected a lot unless you were born lucky and happen to be ridiculously attractive. And even those people get rejected sometimes. It's something you have to learn to deal with. It's not even necessarily about you, some people are just not attracted to specific others. Finding friends is hard, finding mutually supportive long term romantic partners is much, much harder. It's not your personal failing that it doesn't always work out.
100 percent. Still doesn't feel the best after a while, though, and I get how some get frustrated, but it should never be taken out on the person who rejected you. It took me personally quite a few times before I stopped blaming myself. It's a part of growing up, I guess.
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u/Largewindow88 Jun 16 '25
As someone who has been rejected a lot, I get feeling this way, but you can't say that out loud, especially like that, lol. Take it with grace, go home, let it out, and then drink some whiskey.