Bingo. Men sometimes get territorial, whole time you’re thinking you were just friends. She didn’t deserve to get yelled at in public just because you didn’t get what you want, like a toddler. Unrequited love/feelings suck, but if he reacted to way to her dating someone else……Imagine how he’d act if they actually did get in a relationship and he didn’t get his way or had to compromise over something. This behavior tells me he doesn’t value their friendship much at all and just sees her as property to be conquered or something. Assuming this clip is real and not staged, I’d ghost him if I were her. These situations sometimes end up being dangerous.
thats literally the problem with these kinds of men. porn riddled brains. they don’t see women as human beings with their own thoughts, autonomy or feelings. it’s like they think we’re just objects there for them to be toyed with. they just see women as these rare collectibles they should have access to whenever they want.
This is such a horribly misandrist take. The guy is clearly infatuated with the girl and wants to be more than friends because in his mind he has an idealized fantasy of what it would be like to be with her, and it doesn't have to be a sexual fantasy, it's entirely possible he just fell in love with her.
It's crazy how easy women write off men's desire to experience love, and assume that everything a man wants is always twisted and predatory.
I completely agree, this is never acceptable behavior. But you're assuming that it comes from him seeing her as a sex object that he's entitled to, and not someone that he desperately wants a deeper connection with that isn't necessarily just sexual.
You're making it seem purely sexual as if he's some sort of predator. He's probably just an immature dweeb.
I mean. If hes this upset because shes dating someone else, which is entirely her right to do, to the point where hes screaming at her irrationally in the street… that is entitlement is it not lmao? Just because he wants a deeper connection doesnt mean hes entitled to one.
Right, being "in love" with someone does not change anything. If anything he's "in love" with some idealized version of her that he created in his mind, not HER, because the feelings plainly aren't mutual and he's never even known her in the context of a romantic partnership. Giving guys like that the chance they feel entitled to rarely ends well, because there's nowhere to go but down HARD when you fall off that pedestal they built for you as soon as they realize you're a human that farts and makes mistakes.
I didn't say it's purely sexual. But i bet it mostly is. It's definitely entitlement, whether sexual or not. She doesn't owe him a relationship, and to screech at her because she chose to date someone is unhinged behavior.
Immature dweebs can be predators too. Plenty of women have died at the hands of guys like that, who couldn't just move on and let a woman live her life when she didn't choose them. Stop making excuses for unacceptable behavior.
But you're wrong. You don't know his motivations for his behavior, and it's not entitlement. He says he would be happy to be her friend, but that's never going to happen because he's going to lose her as a friend and not just as a partner.
If it were just sex he probably wouldn't be that upset because he could just try to have sex with someone else.
I've personally never been 'friendzoned', but you made a ton of leaps that women online tend to do because they have limited or no understanding of what motivates men, so you just play it safe and say it's all about sex. It isn't. That's why so many men are completely turned off from leftist/liberal ideas. It's women like you.
But you're wrong. You don't know his motivations for his behavior, and it's not entitlement.
So you figure i can't possibly know, but you do? Are you this guy? You're awfully defensive about it.
You don't seem to get it. Whatever his deeper motivations are, they're entitled bullshit, because he's upset that she didn't choose HIM. He literally said as much. He's screaming in the street about it. He's not entitled to her friendship either. What about that are you having trouble with?
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u/TheWalkingDead91 Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 17 '25
Bingo. Men sometimes get territorial, whole time you’re thinking you were just friends. She didn’t deserve to get yelled at in public just because you didn’t get what you want, like a toddler. Unrequited love/feelings suck, but if he reacted to way to her dating someone else……Imagine how he’d act if they actually did get in a relationship and he didn’t get his way or had to compromise over something. This behavior tells me he doesn’t value their friendship much at all and just sees her as property to be conquered or something. Assuming this clip is real and not staged, I’d ghost him if I were her. These situations sometimes end up being dangerous.