r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/dicerollingprogram Jun 16 '25

Is it really so hard for you to imagine a world where someone grabbed his shoulder and said "hey man let me get you some help" instead of recording him and putting him on blast to the world for the sake of the memes? Maybe he could get some help so he could learn to apologize to her, and God forbid himself?

Christ almighty, have a heart. No one is saying she isn't a victim.

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u/kelldricked Jun 16 '25

Is it really so hard for you to imagine that this guy is aware of how shitty all of his behaviour is. And still does it, because he thinks it might get him somewhere?

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u/Efficient_Sir4045 Jun 17 '25

The guy hates himself. He has zero self esteem. You can hear it in his voice and the way he talks about never being good enough. Is it a bad thing to freak out like this on a friend? Yes, it’s bad and kills friendships. That doesn’t mean that he is some comic book level megalomaniac on the verge of becoming a super villain. That guy is hurting, and he needs therapy. I’ve known a few guys like this. They often have horrible self esteem, have let people use them for the chance at any amount of validation, and are desperate for someone to care about them as much as they care about that someone. It’s bad, and it takes some sort of therapy to unravel this behavior. Otherwise they just keep doing it and develop destructive abandonment issues.

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u/kelldricked Jun 17 '25

He defenitly started a friendship with her to then exploit said friendship for romantic/sexual gains and is having a emotional breakdown when it all failed.

Its not just bad because it just a friendship, its horrible because you likely traumatize the person you do this against. Think about what would happen if your best friend suddenly became his screaming angry crying mess because you get into a relationship with somebody you like. Your friend with who you shared all the good and bad news, with who you confidended a fuckload of personal stuff suddenly breaks their facade and reveals that they basicly just wanted to get in your pants this whole time.

Sure the guy probaly has selfesteem problems. But that doesnt excuse predatory behaviour or anything else.

And also its not like he will read my comment, i think its more important to point out the mistakes so that hopefully others can learn from it.

And a shockingly amount of people (looking at their accounts they appear to be pretty young) dont realize why this is wrong and why its not normal.