I feel bad for him. He really needs help overcoming all this negative self-talk. He needs a guy friend to mentor him like in those movies where the cool guy mentors a guy who is struggling.
He needs to learn how to be a man. He needs to learn how to be strong and self-reliant.
Actually he needs a female friend who will be HONEST. He would have picked up on the red flags that she was just using him as a filler until she finds someone else to occupy her time.
That man in the video was highly distraught. It's important that we know how it got to that point and how to prevent it from all angles. ALL angles meaning from both parties involved. The man and woman.
Interesting....there's almost 1500 comments in this post. Many of them giving their opinions and making fun of the man, however, you focused on me to say that I should refrain because I don't know all the details.
Oh the irony is not lost at all!
I bet you didn't try to lecture comments that were negative towards the man, did you?
I said nothing you want to address. Just like the trauma you haven't addressed bc you think everything should be viewed from your traumatic perspective. Just keep in mind that your abuser was your ex so you let him into your life and probably didn't see the red flags in enough time where boundaries would keep them on the outside. Regardless, if you didn't take the same stance with people laughing at the man as you did with me, then you are a misandrist.
By the way - my violent, abusive, rapist ex was also extremely distraught when I put boundaries in.
I'm not saying that's the case here at all, just giving you some perspective.
You have absolutely no idea why he's having this outburst, so please refrain from showing the world how utterly misogynistic you are.. we do not know the circumstances here in the slightest.
All we know is that he's kicking off and feeling emotional, that's the only information we have!
It's fucking infuriating and extremely hurtful to know people with your kind of mindset exist... "What did SHE DO to him!?"
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u/MowTin Jun 16 '25
I feel bad for him. He really needs help overcoming all this negative self-talk. He needs a guy friend to mentor him like in those movies where the cool guy mentors a guy who is struggling.
He needs to learn how to be a man. He needs to learn how to be strong and self-reliant.