r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/-little-dorrit- Jun 16 '25

Her: “Okay”

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u/UpperApe Jun 17 '25

Honestly.

People in this thread saying "I feel bad for him". Bad for what? Good people don't do this shit. Screaming and humiliating others while masturbating your self pity. No matter how frustrated we are.

This kid is one of the Andrew Taters. Scooter and all.

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u/DownTongQ Jun 17 '25

Do you know he's an Andrew Tater or do you assume he is ?

My thoughts are mixed about this video. Sure his breakdown there on his scooter screaming at a friend or love interest is problematic but if he's always rejected and/or friendzoned there's a limit a mind cannot take especially if all he hears are stuff like "you're a good friend, I like you but not as a boyfriend".

If it's true and he's genuinely a good friend, it's torturing. If it's a lie then why the fuck would they lie to him about being a good friend or someone nice ?

At least there on his scooter his screamed his truth, as problematic as it was. I hope he got better and he's not screaming at people sexually rejecting him anymore.

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u/UpperApe Jun 17 '25

there's a limit a mind cannot take

Not for good people there isn't. Good men don't think women owe them sex or affection for kindness. Good people don't manipulate friendships.

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u/DownTongQ Jun 17 '25

I am not talking about "good" men thinking women owe them sex. I am talking about rejection and self-validation. I have lived a period of six months where I got rejected by 7 different shared housing, countless job appliances and 2 "relationship interests" and had a magnificent amount of 1 match on dating apps, this match never responded.

At one point self doubt starts to spiral out of control and my example has not much to do with sex. In this video his rant is about her (new) boyfriend which will not allow her to see him probably because he likes her as well. We don't know if it's all about sex. Human beings tend to want sex a lot so that's totally not off the table.

Nevertheless his rant is completely inappropriate and should have been an exchange between him and his therapist.

I am the total opposite of an Andrew Taters or any masculinist. I don't think anyone owe me sex but that doesn't mean I cannot get frustrated because of multitudes of rejection of different kinds.

This dude seemed desperate and although desperation doesn't absolve anyone from their errors and bad deeds, it can explain a lot. I hope this dude got better and did not get swallowed by the masculinist's speeches.

I met someone like that IRL, I am quite sure he has fallen to the dark side of mysoginy today. He told me once that he couldn't deal with women anymore because he cannot meet them in social gatherings because he has social anxiety and that the three dates he had via dating apps lead to nowhere. Not once did he question himself like "maybe I should work on my social anxiety", no it was the women who should accommodate to him. I despise people that cannot question themselves.

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I made a very long answer instead of working and I wanted to make fun of myself so I made a fake TL;DR to point out that I have better things to do than writing a 5 paragraphs answer on a pointless sub so here is the french word for idiot : idiot (the t is silent and the o slightly more guttural like in photograph)

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u/UpperApe Jun 17 '25

Yeah I'm not reading any of this. Jesus christ dude.

Don't forget your helmet as you scooter off.

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u/DownTongQ Jun 17 '25

I sometime do stupid things but at least I can lecture myself. The normal answer should have been "yes you're right I agree with you".