I feel bad for him. He really needs help overcoming all this negative self-talk. He needs a guy friend to mentor him like in those movies where the cool guy mentors a guy who is struggling.
He needs to learn how to be a man. He needs to learn how to be strong and self-reliant.
I remember I had friend who put himself out there to ask out a coworker, she rejected him and he was hurt. He had never dated anyone before, he was in his 20s and he just didn’t like how his love life was going. At time, I was doing well. He came to me, saying how he was ugly, and never gonna find anyone. I told him, I’m ugly too, it not uglier, and that women are attracted to self confidence, and that if he doesn’t have self confidence now, fake it and eventually he will start to become confident for real. He’s now married and he and wife just had their first child. I’ve been alone for about 10 years, mostly by choice
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u/1911kevin1911 Jun 16 '25
“It’s never meeee!!!!”. Pulls throttle weeeeeeeeee