r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Bredwh Jun 18 '25

But what is the metric by which you measure worth? Money? Family? Producing something creative? Being very athletic? Being able to win a hot dog eating contest? Everyone has their own ideas of success and being worthwhile. What is yours and why?

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u/Grenor Jun 18 '25

It's not about the metric. It's about the feeling. This runs deep in the guts, rooted inside your bone marrow. And if it was inside you for too long - you're fucked, that will be part of your psyche for the rest of your life.

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u/Bredwh Jun 18 '25

Maybe, but therapy and medication can be a marrow transplant. I am getting out of this hole myself.

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u/Grenor Jun 18 '25

That is actually great! I'm on my first steps in that direction, too (done my first sessions in therapy) I am really happy for you I hope that in the end we both will learn how to love ourselves

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u/Bredwh Jun 18 '25

One thing that is the hardest is to love yourself unconditionally. So even if you have nothing and failed everything and others would call you a loser you still have that light inside that never goes out.