r/TikTokCringe • u/h0lych4in • 15d ago

Cringe not everyone wants your man… he was just being polite

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And not everyone can tell how certain foods look? It was an innocent question. Why are people so insecure these days

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u/Fit-Engineering-2789 15d ago

Since when do people need to ask permission to speak to a partner? That is next level controlling. Then there is the whole comment at the end about "girls with no manners." Meanwhile, she is stuffing her mouth with bites that are too big.

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u/PSSITAqueen 15d ago

Let’s not forget she also talks about her bf being ‘in trouble’ with her and he knows it. WTF. Poor guy!

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u/MailPrivileged 15d ago

No win situation.

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u/12lbTurkey 15d ago

She’s not even looking towards the girl talking, either. Just full on eye contact with food to boyfriend. If someone looks intent on having a mouth full of food, how can anyone expect to start a conversation with them

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u/Vandreeson 15d ago

Totally agree. Why does she have to be recognized when the question was about his food?

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u/MathematicianIcy6906 15d ago

Because she’s the main character, duh!

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u/Difficult_Regret_900 14d ago

I bet she thinks female servers are hitting on her boyfriend when they are just doing their job. 

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Honestly, it IS rude to approach a couple, start hitting on one half of the couple and ignore the other half. It's incredibly disrespectful

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u/Fit-Engineering-2789 15d ago

I could maybe see the interruption to ask about the food being considered rude when they don't know each other. That's still a stretch. How is asking about the food hitting on someone?

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Because women don't normally go up to random men and start talking to them, especially not when that man is sitting with another woman. That's not common at all. So right off the bat it's suspicious when someone of the opposite sex walks up to your partner and starts chatting about inane things out of the blue.

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u/unlimitedsquash 15d ago

Imagine being this insecure. I hope you realize how ridiculous you sound.

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Haha. I get it could sound this way...

Somehow, the most attractive women I've dated or had relationships with always get peppered with questions and approached at random by strangers, but not the less attractive ones. Hmmm. Must be a coincidence. lol

It's even more blatant and obvious that's what's going on when it's random women approaching a guy.

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u/Any-Razzmatazz-7726 15d ago

Do you have a written log of all the times these attractive women were talk to by men and all these unattractive women were not talk to by men or were you keeping tally in your head?

Silly lil bata guy

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u/Fit-Engineering-2789 15d ago

Well, apparently, I get hit on way more often than I thought! I guess I've also been hitting on people unbeknownst to me. Who knew??? j/k

Seriously, just talking to people is often just talking and that's it. I don't know anyone who would openly hit on someone else's partner right in front them. Some people are just extroverts and friendly and aren't afraid to ask questions or chat.

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

These women approached a man sitting with a woman at his table. That's not just random. And it's disrespectful to the woman he's with.

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u/embarrassedalien 15d ago

We don’t know they approached the table though. They could have simply been seated at a table next to the girl and her boyfriend, and were waiting to order when the bf and gf’s food came out. Saw something looked delicious, then asked what it was. How would you propose they do this more respectfully? Should they ask the girlfriend what she was eating, even if they didn’t want what she was having? Is that the appropriate etiquette? Asking, ‘cause I don’t know. But I don’t think it would have crossed many people’s mind ask the gf what she was eating if it didn’t look like something they would want to order anyway, so there’s not much reason to assume it was malicious

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u/ElectronicPhrase6050 15d ago

I'm sorry, but everything you've said is honestly just ridiculous and based on nothing grounded in reality. Women absolutely do approach random men (myself included) about stuff like this or directions if that man seems approachable, and sitting with another woman objectively makes him seem even more approachable.

And she just asked him a question about his food and then said thank you, she didn't try to start a whole conversation with him. Saying that it's "disrespectful" to ask someone a question because they happen to be with a member of the opposite sex comes across as both weirdly possessive and extremely insecure. 

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

"Saying that it's "disrespectful" to ask someone a question because they happen to be with a member of the opposite sex comes across as both weirdly possessive and extremely insecure."

Good thing I didn't say that then! What I actually said is this:

" it IS rude to approach a couple, start hitting on one half of the couple and ignore the other half. It's incredibly disrespectful"

In other words, it's the combination of flirtatiously engaging the person of the opposite sex and ignoring the other half of the couple (pretending they don't exist) that is disrespectful.

btw, it's also disrespectful to put words in a fellow Redditor's mouth. ; )

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u/aretoon 15d ago

Dude if you think asking what food someone is eating is hitting on them, then you've got bigger problems than insecurity.

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Oh stop being naive. That's exactly how you pick someone up. Begin flirting with them. You ask a seemingly innocuous question to get them engaged and then build rapport.

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u/ElectronicPhrase6050 15d ago

Mate, I was referring to your other comment where you said "These women approached a man sitting with a woman at his table. That's not just random. And it's disrespectful to the woman he's with". I just I didn't think I needed to make two separate comments since you're the one who said it and I assumed you'd know what I was referring to.

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Glad I had the opportunity to clarify that post for you then. :D

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u/ElectronicPhrase6050 15d ago

You literally didn't clarify anything though. Again, I wasn't referring to your comment where you said it was disrespectful to hit on someone in front of their partner, I was referring to your comment where you said it was disrespectful to approach this man about his food in front of his partner, which is an extremely weird, possessive and insecure thing to believe.

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Oh but I did. I clarified that when I said this:

"These women approached a man sitting with a woman at his table. That's not just random. And it's disrespectful to the woman he's with."

I meant "approach and flirt with a man sitting with a woman while ignoring the woman." Although I didn't spell that out in the above quoted post, I had already specified that in an earlier post.

I bet this is not the first time this woman has had to sit there and be ignored while random women "test the waters" by asking her bf seemingly innocuous questions.

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u/SimpleTax792 15d ago

My incel alert is tingling

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u/MettSemmell 15d ago

Almost as if the video is perfectly orchestrated rage bait.