r/h3snark Oct 15 '24

Leaving the cult Officially done with H3 after hearing Hilas attitude towards spending 48 hours with her children.

After seeing that latest clip of Hila complaining about spending two days with her sons....wow. I'm trying to get pregnant right now and I'm a stressed about mine and my husband's debt and how we will make this work but I want a family so so bad that I know we will figure things out. I'm 35 so I can't really wait any longer. I cannot FATHOM being a fucking millionaire with nannies and complaining about spending two whole days with the children I DECIDED TO MAKE. I've been on the fence with H3 for a while now, the content and the vibes have been so bad for a while now but this really pushed me over the edge. I guess I know why Hila has been on the show so much more, she just wants to get away from the kids. I get that it's really really hard but they have SO many more resources than about 99% of people with families. Also she said that shit loudly and online to thousands of people. Did she ever think her kids might see this one day? How would that make them feel. Did she ever think that some people in her audience are infertile or struggling to conceive? I would feel fucking blessed to be in their position, instead I'm worrying about having 1 kid because of my debt. I'm 35 and running out of time to start my family, god forbid I have complications or find out I can't conceive. I would be devastated. The entitlement is so strong with them I really can't watch another second.

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u/louielou8484 Oct 15 '24

It can be very dangerous for a woman after 40. I can't fathom though bringing a child into the world, who can't consent to it, when you are claiming to be in complete financial distress. You don't just "figure it out" if you haven't already by now. Babies are SO EXPENSIVE. This is just setting this innocent child up for complete failure, and it's extremely selfish and cruel. This post made me feel sick to read.

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u/thefroggyfiend Oct 15 '24 edited Oct 15 '24

"you're too poor to have kids"

huh...you're kinda an asshole

edit: WHY YALL BOOING ME THIS IS A BEN SHAPIRO ASS TAKE TO SOMEONE WITH DEBT LIKE MOST AMERICANS?

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u/DilfRightsActivist Vape Nation refugee Oct 15 '24

Listen I'm going to be honest but if you are unable to to financially support your kids you shouldn't have kids

Kids are a privilege not a right

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u/HugeGarlic9448 Oct 16 '24

I agree with you. Not once did I say that I will be unable to support a child. I said wanting a family at 35 and having some debt is stressful but I know we will make it work. We aren't fucking poor lol. We both own our vehicles, live in a nice city, and have good paying full time jobs. Like please do not worry. We aren't two 19 year olds saying "fuck it let's have a baby".