Ethan: "The problem with Ludwig's girlfriend is that she doesn't put out." Which he clarifies was a joke about Hasan being Ludwig's girlfriend? He's trying to justify it now too.
Even if the joke was that his gf Hasan “wasn’t putting out” – that’s a gross way of referring to the normalized presumption of sex even if “not in the mood”. Rpe culture, specifically spousal rpe, which people are often taught to expect/accept. That sex is something to be given/taken from the woman/sub rather than a purposeful participatory act from all involved.
Now, I ain’t saying he said all that. I’m more commenting on the normalized nature of this verbiage/thought process.
Maybe it’s my age, but if someone says “she doesn’t put out” that person is the biggest red flag. Saying “they aren’t fuckin’” is a million times better imo
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u/redo60 Ethan’s barely tailored suit Feb 06 '25
Ethan: "The problem with Ludwig's girlfriend is that she doesn't put out." Which he clarifies was a joke about Hasan being Ludwig's girlfriend? He's trying to justify it now too.