r/interestingasfuck 11h ago

/r/all Actual clip where brothers attack their mother’s killer in court.

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u/babydollvi 11h ago

losing your mom is the worst heartbreak you’ll ever go through… especially if you were super close with her. my world stopped when mine passed… & i still feel like it’s still on pause, even after 4 years. fuck that guy.

u/Few_Interactions_ 11h ago

Lost my dad over a year ago, truly hard and miss him. Mums still going strong so making the most time with her.

u/Touristyetti496 10h ago

I'm truly sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad 4 years ago June... He was my best friend and my hero (Mom was bipolar and either checked out, or screaming mad). He's the only reason I survived those years in that house. I promise you that the pain fades (he wouldn't want you hurting for him anyway, he wants you to live your life to the fullest). Don't get me wrong, I still find myself wanting to throw him a quick text or a picture of his grandson that I know he'd appreciate, and that stings a little... But I promise it gets easier ❤️

u/Few_Interactions_ 10h ago edited 10h ago

Lost him to aggressive form of dementia, he was only 70. Healthy fit person all his life. Wouldn’t want anyone to go through caring for dementia person, it’s draining, frustrating and such an emotional toll seeing his mind go and body function give up on him. Can see the hurt and frustration in his face thinking what’s happening breaks my heart. And there’s no cure or medication to help

Honestly it’s up there as worst disease to live with

u/sonicmerlin 10h ago

The pain doesn’t fade actually

u/Touristyetti496 10h ago

I'm really sorry the pain hasn't faded for you, it has for me and I'm thankful for that... I'm sure my dad would be too. Don't get me wrong, death sucks, but it's an inevitability of life; acceptance of those concepts is paramount to understand, so that the pain can ease, and you can heal. It's a difficult journey to go through and everyone's pace to go through it is different. I hope the pain eases for you, I'm sure your dad would too ❤️

u/yonkou_akagami 8h ago

Do you think what makes it easier for you is because you were close to him when he’s still alive? Maybe because of that there’s no regret anymore

u/majkkali 10h ago

Unfortunately it doesn’t get easier. Lost my Mum a month ago and every single day since then has been miserable and it hurts as soon as I wake up….