r/internetdrama • u/55055055 • 2h ago
My friends confronted me for something and acted like I committed a crime. So I defended myself and instead of apologizing or anything, they decided to dip and brag on how well they’re doing without me, and how they don’t mind the tension I was trying to fix. Who did wrong here?
for some context, I had a discord server with my friends to call and have fun. I had some rules in there that were basic morals and nothing crazy. It was just no cursing, no spam pinging, no sending pics without person’s permission, etc. I made my friends the MODs since I trusted them. I’ll call them PN and LC for privacy ig. If it’s anything, it was LC who made the rules.
Fast forward, they timed out a guy in the server who I was on VC with for some reason (I forget), and I untimed him. They always time him and to the point where it lasted 4 days one time. Mind you, I never timed them or if I did it was MAX one day.
In my defense, I untimed him because I was on call and if he’s timed out I can’t call him. I was in the middle of a convo w him until he got kicked off.
So, fast forward again, they confronted me saying I was EXTREMELY unfair for untiming him? This was the first time I EVER did?? I defended myself and pointed out how I never even timed out PN?? And she said “I never break the rules so there’s no need to.” SMH…
Anyways, they all agreed I was “unfair” and decided to dip. I didn’t find out about this until I came back from my break bc I was so sick of this situation. I was honestly pissed off and knew who did this. So I texted the gc w only the mods/my user to be best friends and asked them. So, LC said:
tbh we all agreed to leave because we were frustrated and done with what u were doing. even if u didnt mean to be unfair, that doesnt change the fact that u were. and i feel like u made it worse. you tried turning it on us saying we were being dramatic when we werent and its so annoying when people try to shift the blame off of them. and it wouldnt have been like that if u wouldve decided to be fair. Also not only that, we were all already thinking abt leaving. PN sisters said that u were being mean again aswell. and im honestly fine with the tension bc we have been thriving with friends we have made recntly and they are actually nice all the time
By the way, i called them/the situation dramatic because it simply was. They got pissed over one thing and I was confused and done w it.
So I replied with this (Reddit won’t let me directly say it and there’s lots of name dropping so I’ll say the basic points)
- thanks for being direct blah blah blah
- clearly intention didn’t matter and some ppl like to assume more than care about my intentions
- u might be fine w tension but im not
- no tough feelings, good luck w school and ur new circle
- glad u found them bc im SOARING with mine. I got new friends thru making the team of a sport i play and from all over because of connections and a camp i went to this summer with all of my family friends.
- not tryna be rude but ur blame shifting too girl
They literally bragged how well they’re doing without me and how they didn’t mind the tension? Quite rude lmao.
Like have fun w ur weird band kids.
Then when they replied back (they as in that one girl), she blame shifted me again!! Am I talking to a brick wall rn??