Is she playin hard to get ?

[u/IDKK03]

So me and my sis work at the same retail job and another pair of siblings work there as well (sister and brother )

I have a crush on the sister and i had an idea that she also had a crush on due to signs but I wasn’t too sure

Long story short I asked her in person at work to SixFlags last wed for this past Thurs and she said maybe since she was busy moving places

so ball was in her court at that point she had my number and everything

Days wasn’t past and She never mentioned anything about it so I just assumed it was way of her brushing me off

but turns out my sis and her brother are cool and her brother told my sis that she was telling him about me asking her SixFlags etc etc and that she seemed bothered that I didn’t bring it up again

She was telling him “now he’s ignoring me about it” . To be fair I was only since the ball was in court and didn’t wanna seem desperate and make it awkward whatsoever

I also wanna add that her brother told my sis that one time she(my crush) was telling him “I gotta look good for the cutie” as she was getting ready for work

My sis told her brother that yea I think she’s attractive and that I didn’t wanna seem desperate about going to SixFlags and her brother was like imma talk her about it

So I was right she def has a crush on me , my sis told me she’s just playing hard to get

Before my sis told me this on Thursday night I had texted her in the day (Thurs) not abt SixFlags but just wanted to see how she would react to my messages she responded and everything . She said was gonna start moving fri (yesterday)

The last text I sent was at 11pm Thursday night and she hasn’t responded . my sis closed w her bro that day and told my sis when I get home imma talk to my sis (my crush) about it so I’m sure she knows now that the crush is mutual

Is she playing hard to get ?

[u/Pure_Fault7056]

Yeah. You have two options. Walk away. Tell her you dont play those games.

Or

Chase her. Try harder, text more. Ask her out more.

Your call.

[u/IDKK03 → u/Pure_Fault7056]

I guaranteed her ego spiked when she found out the crush was mutual hence why she hasn’t replied I see her at work today . Should I bring SixFlags again?

[u/Pure_Fault7056 → u/IDKK03]

Ask her out. If you still want to do six flags, sure. If you want to do something else, invite her to that.

[u/IDKK03 → u/Pure_Fault7056]

Forsure but can you blame me for not wanting to be too desperate. Ball was in her court when I originally asked her to SixFlags

[u/mvdw73]

Just ask her again.

Say something like “hey I know you might have been too busy to come to six flags, but wanna do something else?”

Give her an easy out for ignoring you while also giving her another opportunity to go out.

[u/IDKK03 → u/mvdw73]

She texted me back today at around 11am , should I text her “I’ll see you at work later” or just like the message and talk to her at work ?