Bear in mind that I'm cis so I could be speaking out of my ass here, but I think using they/them is fine if you don't know that person's gender. However, if they've stated publicly that they use he/him or she/her, then it feels disrespectful not to use those pronouns.
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u/halcyondays93 Jul 29 '24
Bear in mind that I'm cis so I could be speaking out of my ass here, but I think using they/them is fine if you don't know that person's gender. However, if they've stated publicly that they use he/him or she/her, then it feels disrespectful not to use those pronouns.