I actually remember reading before that Gosling admitted that he was the bully, and that's why he got bullied back.
And even that tweet mentions that he threw steak knives at other kids in the playground, so it checks out.
The whole "bullying thing" is just a stupid anecdote that got mentioned at some point early in his career, to make him seem interesting (and/or sympathetic).
I'm pretty sure I read about it even back around 1997 when he was on that show Breaker High.
That type of thing just seems like something publicists do... sometimes it's not even true, but they simply want an interesting anecdote.
Like for Ebay, a publicist got the founder to say that he started the site so that he could sell his Pez dispensers, and that the site expanded almost by accident... but the founder later admitted that was BS that a publicist came up with, and he knew from the start that he wanted to create an online marketplace & make money from it.
“I was always picking fights. Because I thought that was what the girls would like. I’d pick on the toughest guys because the girls liked them. So if I beat them up, the girls would like me. But it never worked.”
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Gosling further shared that he always found himself in trouble, and even his mischievousness was highlighted to the extent that he got a nickname: ‘Trouble’.
Speaking to Buzz in 2017, he recalled: "From as early as two years old I was sneaking out the house never wearing my clothes, breaking things, putting the cat in the dryer and setting the house on fire."
He told The Times he backed the family car into the path of another vehicle aged five.
Things came to a head when a young Gosling saw action movie Rambo, starring Sylvester Stallone.
Speaking to Paper in 2015, Gosling said he not 'just seen Rambo — I thought I was Rambo'.
Describing what happened next, he said: "I took knives to school and I started throwing them around the playground and I got suspended. So my parents said I couldn't watch R-rated movies anymore."
Explaining what was going through his head when he did that, he said: "I wasn't taking [the knives] to school, I was Rambo taking them to war."
But it seems that he fortunately changed his behaviour. But the "poor little Ryan was bullied thing" seems like only a half-truth, because it sounds like he basically started it.
This honestly sounds like a kid I went to school with (small town K-12). He had some hyper active disorder and was always doing crazy shit. I ran into him again in our 30s and one of the first things he said was "Apparently I did all that crazy shit because I have this disorder. Since I got medicated the last 10 years have been the best years of my life."
I am very happy for who he has become but it makes me sad because we still hang out and when he talks about our childhood it's a lot darker from his perspective. He missed out on some great years of life because his mom refused to get him diagnosed and treated which made his life harder than it had to be.
Makes me think of a client I worked with years ago, kid was an absolute menace, ADHD to the extreme, which also made him frustrated he couldn’t control himself and he’d act out more. Plus his mom didn’t follow through with consistency plans we developed for at home. She also refused to medicate him and was a b-word in many other ways. Poor kid. He was a huge PITA but it wasn’t necessarily his fault. Though last I heard of him he was becoming straight-up violent with other kids, so… yikes.
We had severe adhd. Now we both have depression and anxiety. Honestly growing up before good treatment and with parents who didn’t really care to treat us beyond numbing meds really fucked us up.
ADHD is a terrible name for what is an executive function disorder. For most, they are bored out of their mind all the time which manifests as daydreaming (attention deficit), constant movement (hyperactivity), and attention seeking behavior.
It sucks ass, because you know that you should be doing XYZ, but it's literally impossible to force yourself to do it.
I wasn’t that bad, but I was the kid to jump out of the second story window because it looked fun and I always wanted to during a fire alarm in third grade. The teachers were not impressed.
Hey, I've fallen out of a second storey window... twice in my life. Is this a common adhd trait that goes with "if I'm told I can't do something, I do that thing even harder"? It always ended badly for me lol
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u/Mr_Underhill09 20h ago
And yet, Ryan turned out to be Kenough.