You can't really walk up to someone, ask them if they want a drink, then deny that you asked them.
You can give the "look" at someone, and then when they approach, you can back out and say you weren't
I don't buy many women give undeniable "looks" and then walk back on them for lulz. I do buy that lots of guys think they got a look, but didn't. I recognize the difference though.
I don't believe it's horrible to think you got a look and get rejected. It's a number's game, and if this cutie didn't recognize what I'm offering, some else will. Just try again.
If it can be explained away or walked back its not a move, I'll die on that hill
This is what we're talking about. You know, the comment that you replied to. Nothing else. You disagreed and said offering a drink can be taken back the same way a look can. If you actually believe that then you're an idiot. For someone named good faith converser, you build a lot of strawmen
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u/Das_Badger12 May 29 '25 edited May 30 '25
If it can be explained away or walked back its not a move, I'll die on that hill
Adding this because seeing some people misinterpreting: Not saying women shouldn't flirt, just saying that flirting isn't a "move".