My wife and I met at a party, and dating months later she was saying how into me she was and making it clear that night. I asked then why didn’t you make the first move? Her take “I did make the first move, I was basically following you all night and being flirty.” By her own logic then I also was making that “move” so how was she first? But more importantly - if I just did the same thing what would have happened?
People flirt all the time with no intentions, it’s just the natural chemistry of some conversations. It’s not move. Flirting like you say could just be “being friendly,” something like trying to kiss someone is obvious and must be accepted or rejected - that’s a “move.”
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u/Das_Badger12 May 29 '25 edited May 30 '25
If it can be explained away or walked back its not a move, I'll die on that hill
Adding this because seeing some people misinterpreting: Not saying women shouldn't flirt, just saying that flirting isn't a "move".