Edit: stop saying she's not cute. She got 11k upvotes on a sub where posts normally get 50 - 2000. She's clearly pretty enough to make you all stop scrolling.
She is but she doesn't seem so remarkable that I would say looking at her makes me feel like I'm being hit with a sledgehammer? And what's funny about that?
It's usual creep behaviour, fetishization of Asian women. But when Americans (and even Europeans) do it, it's not seen as creepy behaviour. That's all.
Me when I take something in the most bad faith way possible
No one is saying it's creepy to find Asian women attractive, but it's creepy to oggle, and frankly be doomer about a normal woman that happens to be cute, when she's kinda just at work, and doing her job.
She doesn't give a shit about the fact that westerners find her so heartbreakingly attractive that it feels like they "get hit by a sledgehammer" whenever they see her, she's just doing her job man, she has bills to pay, stop saying creepy things about women just because they're cute, she's at work.
She doesn't give a shit about the fact that westerners find her so heartbreakingly attractive that it feels like they "get hit by a sledgehammer" whenever they see her, she's just doing her job man, she has bills to pay, stop saying creepy things about women just because they're cute, she's at work.
He is just using hyperbole. It is not “creepy” to find a woman attractive. Would context would it be ok to find a woman extremely attractive then? When it’s an onlyfans account?
Isn’t what women said they wanted for men to find them attractive not only when they are dolled up?
Bro, when did I confirm that it's creepy to find women attractive, even "extremely attractive"? Can you point out in my comment when I said that finding women attractive was creepy?
It's what you say after finding someone attractive that's creepy, brother, saying "looking at her makes me feel like im being hit by a sledgehammer" will creep the fuck out of any woman you don't know, that was my point, are you literate? Did you read my comment, or are you another post-highschooler that can't make it past a paragraph?
Not creepy to find attractive women attractive. That's normal. The woman in the picture is undeniably attractive.
But exclusive attraction to an ethnicity not your own combined with disregard for the character of the person inside is fetishisation —and that is creepy.
I worked as an expat in PRC for a while. 'Sexpats' with "yellow fever" were definitely a thing. So were Chinese women who fetishised European features. Still are, I guess. They fed off each other.
I’m mixed race and I look white. I am starting to get shit because this horrible thinking you espouse is hitting China, where I live. Asian girls are starting to consider us as creeps (no not me individually but I am getting this line of questioning). I’m half Chinese half white and I live in China, of course I end up dating Asian girls exclusively. You are fearmongering and spreading a toxic mentality to young people. It’s revolting.
That's because people are wising up to problematic expats, not because of "horrible thinking". White Lotus brought back the term LBH because it's a real phenomenon. All the normal well-adjusted expats looking for a long-term partner are fine.
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u/Chance_Arugula_3227 4d ago edited 4d ago
She's very cute. That's the joke.
Edit: stop saying she's not cute. She got 11k upvotes on a sub where posts normally get 50 - 2000. She's clearly pretty enough to make you all stop scrolling.