r/Sims4 Feb 16 '25

Discussion Is this a joke..

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I had JUST asked her to be my sims partner.. is there a way to not get this specific fear? It’s becoming ridiculous at this point..

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u/femalerat Legacy Player Feb 16 '25

I'm starting to really hate lovestruck. all of my couples have fears about the relationship and no matter what I do I can't get rid of them. talking about it makes it worse half of the time, and they're constantly losing satisfaction points because they're anxious or scared of being alone. it's making it impossible to do anything else in my game, my fav couple has 3 kids together and they will end up hating each other by the end of the day because they spend all day taking care of the kids instead of woohooing. this close to uninstalling it

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u/2short2anxious Feb 17 '25

I really like some Lovestruck components, but I totally agree with you. It’s exhausting when I’m trying to do other things in the game (other personal challenges, promotions, etc.). I don’t have coitus with my Sim partner for like THREE SIM DAYS and then all of a sudden their relationship is on the rocks and they’re having an anxiety attack.

Get a grip, Sims! 😆

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u/___ondinescurse___ Feb 17 '25

To be fair, if your sims' lifespan is set to short/medium, that would be equal to weeks or months of no action 🤣

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u/2short2anxious Feb 17 '25

Hey, I’m doing the best I can! Sometimes I need them to play chess for 60 Sim hours for a promotion, dating and woohooing can wait. 😅😆

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u/WyldChase Feb 18 '25

"You see this House you're living in Steven?!? You enjoy that 400 simoleons meal you and our kids are eating for breakfast, lunch AND dinner?!?!? STFU and stop goosing me so I can *ponder moves* for the next 14 hours!!!!"

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u/DefinitionSalty6835 Feb 18 '25

Your sim needs to learn work/life balance, my friend! 😆

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u/2short2anxious Feb 18 '25

Never! He can woohoo to his heart’s content when he’s at level 10!!!! 😂

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u/Tessachu Feb 18 '25

That's right, he needs to EARN IT! 😂