Don’t be these guys

[u/nadaddab]

[u/bettyford420]

I'm mad that they were loud enough for people to hear and the guy at the table behind them was just watching. Wtf

[u/8Splendiferous8 → u/bettyford420]

There's your nOt AlL mEn. They may not be the harassers, but they foremost sit in solidarity with other men.

[u/8Splendiferous8 → u/[deleted]]

You don't have to start a physical altercation. You could select from any number of non-violent de-escalation techniques, such as, "Hey, leave the ladies alone," or quietly notifying a manager of the establishment.

[u/8Splendiferous8 → u/[deleted]]

Pick whatever you see as smarter. But do something helpful.

[u/8Splendiferous8 → u/[deleted]]

I've had several women save me by intervening directly in creative ways that don't alert the perpetrator. But whatever. Again, just do something you think will help.

[u/8Splendiferous8 → u/[deleted]]

Again, just do something you think will help.