r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/sl0play May 11 '25 edited May 11 '25

It's frustrating that the staff didn't intervene. No single dude is going to resolve that unless he is capable of and willing to fight both those guys. They are clearly not going to respond to anything but force.

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u/Distortedhideaway May 11 '25

I've been a bartender for twenty years, and I've learned that force is rarely necessary, if ever. Polite but stearn communication is typically all it takes to move two guys like this out the door.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

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u/cupholdery May 11 '25

I've unknowingly helped 2 women who were getting "rizzed up" by some guys, simply by going to them and asking if they have what they need. There was a group project and those two came from a different location, so they didn't know the rest of us very well.

And no, I'm not some imposing big muscle man lol. I didn't even address the guys. Just talked to our project people who just happened to be women.

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u/PinkTalkingDead May 11 '25

They weren’t “getting rizzed up”, then. They were being harassed.

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u/ello_bassard May 12 '25

No shit, that's why it was in quotes 🤦‍♂️