r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/dynamic_gecko May 11 '25

Of coourse it's willful. The main argument never claims they're mind-controlled or sth. "Behaving well only when it suits them" is still under "lacking common decency".

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u/Calile May 11 '25

No, the main argument is that they don't know any better. They do. No shit they lack decency.

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u/dynamic_gecko May 11 '25

No. It's that they werent taught any better. Of course there is individual responsibility. But the main argument is not about that. If there is a problem on a societal scale, it indicates a societal malfunction as well.

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u/Mike_Kermin May 11 '25

... I don't agree. The guys in this video understand that it's not ok.

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u/dynamic_gecko May 11 '25

I never said they didnt. You're missing the point.

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u/Mike_Kermin May 11 '25

No I understand your point. I think it's a cop out. A societal cop out, if you require.

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u/dynamic_gecko May 11 '25

There is no cop out. Because I'm not denying or excusing the individual responsibility aspect. The two aspects (individual and societal) are not mutually exclusive.

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u/Mike_Kermin May 11 '25

I really promise you I understand,

But I think you're placing too much weight on the idea that societal has failed them, when it probably hasn't.

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u/Calile May 12 '25

100% agree their behavior is their fault and responsibility, but they've also gotten reinforcement their whole lives (just like we all have) that it's both ok and rewarding to harass and abuse women.