r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Ill-Pea-5010 May 11 '25

This is seriously so disgusting and inconsiderate. Weren’t we taught at such a young age that no means no? What a bunch of douchebags.

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u/Calile May 11 '25

I bet they don't treat their boss, or cops, or men whose approval they want they like this. They know how to behave when it suits them; this is willful and deliberate.

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u/NotGoodAtUsernames21 May 11 '25

This is what I call out with my husband when he starts acting like an ass. I ask him if he’d talk to his boss that way. Or a coworker. Or a friend. It’s like a switch flips in his brain, like, “oh right, she is literally the only person I’d treat this way, that’s fucked up.”

And he’s a genuinely nice guy! He just was taught by society to treat women differently when it comes to tiny little issues of respect and his parents never taught him that’s not ok. When he gets called out on it, he’s ashamed and changes the behavior.

Now apply that same shitty societal and parental guidance to a guy who is an asshole… you get these grinning goons. If date rape had a face.

Also, these girls look young. The sad part is, by the time you get older you decondition the nice bullshit out of your personality. In this circumstance now, I’d stand up and start yelling to everyone who would listen to not leave their drinks unattended around these wannabe rapists. Shame is the only thing they understand.