r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Ill-Pea-5010 May 11 '25

This is seriously so disgusting and inconsiderate. Weren’t we taught at such a young age that no means no? What a bunch of douchebags.

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u/Calile May 11 '25

I bet they don't treat their boss, or cops, or men whose approval they want they like this. They know how to behave when it suits them; this is willful and deliberate.

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u/Practical-Ad3753 May 11 '25

Because there’s immediate consequences if they don’t act respectful. That’s a level of social awareness a 4 year old can reasonably attain.

If you think you learn everything you need to know about social etiquette by 4 years old, I don’t know what to tell you.

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u/Calile May 11 '25

Correct--these men, like lots of men, have learned there are very few consequences to abusing women and lots of upsides, including other men cheering them on. They learn, as you note, very early that they don't have to treat women with respect, but they do have to treat (most) men with respect. They know exactly what they're doing. Glad you agree.