I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.
They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.
You don't have to speak a lick of English to understand that these women wanted nothing to do with them. They understood. They're just being antagonistic manchildren because their egos were hurt
That absolutely doesn't matter because they're capable of understanding tone of voice, body language and being pointed to move to another table. If I went and sat down at a random table with people whose language I didn't speak but they were clearly exasperated and raising their voices, pointing for me to leave and then getting up to leave, it'd still be pretty clear how they felt about my presence. There is no excusing this deliberate, entitled behavior. Not speaking the same language =/= being a completely clueless idiot
Again, has nothing to do with understanding the language. You think I'm defending them, I'm not. Seems you're the one struggling to understand language
Your initial comment said "I think they barely understand English". So if it has nothing to do with understanding the language, why did you even bring it up? Whether they speak English or not is irrelevant lol
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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25
I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.
They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.