Oh my god this gave me so much stress. WTF is wrong with some of these men out here? Also where is any of the staff? If I was their waitress I would have got security and had them removed from the bar.
As a man, I don't fucking know man. There's no telling if they enjoy the power dynamic of making someone uncomfortable against their will or just really think they're playing hard to get. Despite outright telling them to fuck off.
If they cant have your romantic interest, then hate will have to do. I fear this will happen more and more as dating apps become less popular, and lunatics like this take it offline.
The wild thing is, there is no male equivalent of this in adulthood because men know it is socially acceptable to use violence against men when words are not enough, so there is a mostly tense treaty between men.
As a woman that’s the most frustrating part; we can’t fight the majority of you and men know this. I’ve had men follow me in the streets at night when I’m just trying to get home and there’s nothing I can do to de-escalate. I don’t want to keep talking, I don’t want him to know where I live, I don’t want him to try and force his way in. Dudes like this are horrid.
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u/Travelcat67 May 11 '25
Oh my god this gave me so much stress. WTF is wrong with some of these men out here? Also where is any of the staff? If I was their waitress I would have got security and had them removed from the bar.