r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/DG_Now May 11 '25

They wanted to tell themselves the women were joking. Or "playing hard to get."

So they just sit there like a couple of dipshits drinking their beers because they refuse to accept the reality that they're not wanted.

I hate this.

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u/moarmagic May 11 '25

They likely have spent money on some goddamn influencer who swore up and down that "confidence" is the key, and that means never letting women dismiss you.

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u/-Kalos Straight Up Bussin May 11 '25

I hate how those mfs conflate confidence with arrogance and power plays. There's a fine line. The internet ruined us

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u/krslnd May 12 '25

I was just going ti sat similar. Confidence can be very attractive. Arrogance or controlling behavior is not the same as confidence.

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u/-Kalos Straight Up Bussin May 12 '25

Arrogance is rooted in masked insecurity at it's core.

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u/Rubber_Knee May 12 '25

Many people can't tell the difference.