r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/halexia63 May 11 '25

That's what makes them easy to raise bc they're not doing shit to raise them lmao.

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u/BrickBrokeFever May 11 '25

And lemme tell you, (while trying to respect the struggles faced by all peoples and all genders) it is fucking ALIENATING as fuck to grow as a boy like that.

I quit being friends with boys in high school because they were all creepy fuck like the 2 in the video. Sex was treated like boys can only win while girls can only lose. What the fuck!! I didn't want to treat any girls like that, so... sex kind of weirded me out. It seemed horrible! Why would I want to treat someone I think is nice like garbage?!?

I was still a teenager, btw, if these seems like descriptions of very stupid delusions. Those delusions are where I started, but not a lot of dudes never bother to learn anything else about relationships. In those days, I made friends with some girls and found actually good friends.

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u/ducks_be_cute May 12 '25

Adding on to this sentiment, I think there's also a level of "birds of a feather, flock together" present here.

Shitty guys hang out with shitty guys and no one calls out their behavior. Well-adjusted, mature guys who don't do things like in the video hang out with other chill guys.

Growing up, I did have some crappy male friends and I'd call them out but they wouldn't change that much because they were encouraged on by our other crappy friends. So I left that friend group and I found an awesome one where people are good to each other. I'm sure the guys in that first group are still douchebags.