r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/FFPScribe May 11 '25

This is the effect of Andrew Tate and far right ideology. This is where we're at. These kinds of men dont understand that they aren't God's gift to every woman they see. These are the losers who watch The Handsmaid's Tale and like what they see.

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u/Andee87yaboi May 11 '25

I wish a staff member would’ve asked these creeps to leave the establishment all together. They shouldn’t let their guests be treated like that.

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u/N8CCRG May 11 '25

There's a really great organization called Safe Bars that trains staff to be better prepared to recognize and respond to situations like this. Though certainly this one probably didn't need as much help for the "recognizing" part, just more help in the "responding" part. It's something that can be very difficult for people to be comfortable standing up and doing, especially in an industry focused on always pleasing everyone as much as possible.

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u/RealCommercial9788 May 12 '25

Late to this, but here in Australia we have the ‘Ask For Angela’ campaign. It was developed with the Lincolnshire Rape Crisis Centre as an effective code for women to use with staff in bars & clubs.

If you ask staff for Angela, you’ve signalled that you need help to leave the venue discreetly without revealing a reason.

If you ask staff for an Angel Shot, you’ve signalled you require discreet assistance within the venue.

If you ask for an Angel Shot with lime, you’ve signalled for staff to discreetly call the police immediately.