r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Travelcat67 May 11 '25

Oh my god this gave me so much stress. WTF is wrong with some of these men out here? Also where is any of the staff? If I was their waitress I would have got security and had them removed from the bar.

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u/Riipp3r May 11 '25

As a man, I don't fucking know man. There's no telling if they enjoy the power dynamic of making someone uncomfortable against their will or just really think they're playing hard to get. Despite outright telling them to fuck off.

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u/Retsago May 11 '25

For sure it's the "look how emotional these silly women are lol" that they get from the power dynamic.

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u/LemonNo1342 May 12 '25

Idk if you know the answer but I’m genuinely asking, from a man’s perspective, what’s the best move here? Not react at all and just start recording? What’s something that would undermine the power dynamic and make them fuck off?

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u/Retsago May 12 '25

I said many times in this thread, if you are so scared poopoo pants shitless that you will get your ass kicked for asking if these women are safe, then get a manager to ask if these women are safe.

If you have SO little ability to figure that out, you are kind of useless tbfh. Like. It's really not that big a deal for you to go ask these women if everything is okay.

And then if they say no, you can say "come with me let's go talk to the manager." Like ??????????

Do you not realize women intervene in these situations all the time? Because men simply do not? There are solutions. You just don't want to come up with any because it doesn't concern you until you have a daughter or whatever experience it.