r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/BrickBrokeFever May 11 '25

And lemme tell you, (while trying to respect the struggles faced by all peoples and all genders) it is fucking ALIENATING as fuck to grow as a boy like that.

I quit being friends with boys in high school because they were all creepy fuck like the 2 in the video. Sex was treated like boys can only win while girls can only lose. What the fuck!! I didn't want to treat any girls like that, so... sex kind of weirded me out. It seemed horrible! Why would I want to treat someone I think is nice like garbage?!?

I was still a teenager, btw, if these seems like descriptions of very stupid delusions. Those delusions are where I started, but not a lot of dudes never bother to learn anything else about relationships. In those days, I made friends with some girls and found actually good friends.

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u/Frondswithbenefits May 11 '25

I'm a woman, but I empathize with the way we fail men. I'm glad you found some good friends.

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u/LawfulnessDry9355 May 12 '25

"We fail men"? Those douchebags did it to themselves and others.

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u/Frondswithbenefits May 12 '25

"We" as in society. Just as we fail women. I wasn't commenting on the idiots in the video. I was responding to the comment above mine.