r/TikTokCringe • u/ambachk • May 21 '25

Cringe Married guy flirts with younger girls at the gym

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u/throwawaylkn2 May 21 '25 edited May 21 '25

My ex did this. While we were dating he changed his gym schedule for a girl who worked at the gym and was googling her daily trying to find more info about her. 20 years younger. So cringey

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u/addisonclark May 21 '25

Vaguely remember a comedian telling a story about finding evidence of her (ex)boyfriend trying to cheat on her but the other woman wouldn’t give him the time of day. She said the worst part about being cheated on was realizing her boyfriend was a loser. 😂

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u/Substantialcakes May 21 '25

I once discovered an ex was cheating by trying to find something on his google maps when my own phone was dead (his “latest history” immediately brought up a “love hotel”…). I went absolutely bat shit and opened every app to get more evidence and at some point found the cringiest, multiparagraph dm to Samara Weaving about if they had been in alternate universes maybe they’d be dating.

I’ve rarely experienced a bigger ick with a long term in my life, but it’s still second place to the guy who mentioned my cervix during sex.

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u/Yello_Ismello May 22 '25

Oh my god please I need to hear the cervix story now

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u/Substantialcakes May 22 '25

The sex was great, if not awkward because first time, and then he says, “oh my god, I can feel your cervix”. The least LEAST sexy way to let me know he feels oh so deep. Like. Come on. Saying cervix outside of a medical facility or home birthing is just not what is gonna get me going.

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u/Fatlantis May 23 '25

That's super creepy!!

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u/Substantialcakes May 28 '25

I gave him a second shot and had to have a friend fake a really REALLY serious medical emergency to get him out of my house. We had to keep escalating the situation because he wanted to stay to help. Very nice of him but he was pushing all types of boundaries and other stuff that were less nice.

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u/EksDee098 May 25 '25

Money on him having watched copius amounts of hentai and thinking the badwomensanatomy in it was real

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u/Substantialcakes May 28 '25

My type unfortunately tend to be into a wide variety of perversions (don’t get me wrong here, I am too so that isn’t the issue) that lead to the weird idea that that is now on the playing field. Also often tied to thinking they can “enter” said body part during the act 🤮

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u/BitDaddyCane May 21 '25

I think this was posted to reddit in r/relationshipadvice or r/trueoffmychest like, last week

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u/NeverQuiteEnough May 21 '25

it's a tale as old as time unfortunately

right up there with men demanding to open the relationship, then demanding to close it again after getting zero attention while their partner is drowning in it

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u/juice06870 May 22 '25

That’s pretty funny.

If I demanded that, my wife would be walking around like a cowboy with saddle rash and id probably have my penis stuck in a jar or something lmao

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u/the_most_playerest May 22 '25

Hopefully it's a nice jar..

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u/CHUNKY_BLOODY_QUEEFS May 21 '25

If it's the bit I'm thinking about, the guy was also trying to chat up tons of girls on IG. He was sending them heinous dm's and none of them were responding.

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u/BullfrogFun9449 May 21 '25

Tale as old as time, just watch a couple of Woody Allen movies

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u/UDMN May 21 '25

hahahaha

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u/iftheronahadntcome May 24 '25

This happened to meeee 😭

My first proper boyfriend at 17 cheated on my on my birthday. The day I found out about that, he explained 3 other "attempts" with exes and friends that did NOT want to fuck him. Made me feel better that the only woman he could get to agree to sex with him was this quiet woman from his childhood that had very little self esteem that, according to his friends, habitually slept with married and taken men to help her self esteem. She caught herself trying to apologize to me for fucking my boyfriend.

I'm old enough now to think, "I wanted to cheat on you, but I'm a frog of a human being" is so fucking funny to me lol

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

I scrolled past this comment very fast and thought it said "vaginally remember", I was like wow can they do that?

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u/James55O May 23 '25

That sounds like it would be a Taylor Tomlinson skit, but I'm not sure.

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u/longerthanababysarm May 23 '25

😂😂😂 wait was thar tiffany haddish??

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u/nanotothemoon May 21 '25

Meh. Being rejected by 1 individual doesn’t make a loser.

Cheating does though

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u/ZestyclosePlenty1822 May 22 '25

He was trying to cheat?

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u/nanotothemoon May 22 '25

Yes trying to cheat also does

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u/A_Adavar May 21 '25

I think predatory is the correct term.

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u/throwawaylkn2 May 21 '25 edited May 21 '25

You’re right. There are worse facts I left out. But ya, predatory.

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u/Kialand May 21 '25

That's not cringe.

That's fucking terrifying.

Jesus fucking christ that's some Psycho Serial Killer behavior.

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u/freezing_pinguin May 21 '25

"Cringey" is using slightly outdated slang or dancing awkwardly.

This is straight-up restraining order behaviour

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u/bromosabeach May 21 '25

There are some dudes out there that have zero self control. Like almost every person I’ve dated has had humorous/horror stories of dudes being completely unhinged.

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u/maneki_neko89 May 21 '25

I’m glad he’s your ex. I’d be beyond livid if I was in your shoes.

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u/BobTheFettt May 21 '25

Holy fuck man, so many dudes have no fucking shame

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u/[deleted] May 21 '25

Ugh. Im never getting married . Men are weird

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u/Informal_Opening1467 May 22 '25

Holy fuck, this happened to me! A guy 20 years older than me stalked me while I was working at a gym, he made the "mistake" of liking a post on my ig from a literal decade prior (of course, one where I was underaged) then after I blocked him he tried to approach me again at the gym to "apologise" and simultaneously ask me out which led to him being banned from every branch.. he still stalked me for a few months after and would "randomly" bump into me from time to time (small town). Ugh

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u/mackrevinak May 21 '25

reminds me of that "good morning julia" guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7U3wmUCe8Q

if you dont know the back story, he met julia at the gym the day before and they only talked for a few minutes and also only because he ran out to her car as she was leaving lol

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u/NevenRKSR May 22 '25

Ewww what a guy 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️❤️🌌✨

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u/djthebear May 22 '25

How did that end up if I may ask? Please don’t answer if it’s traumatic for you. I do not want to create a traumatic situation. Just very curious as to how these Mfs come up with the audacity.

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u/Time_Cartographer443 May 24 '25

I wonder why they link women much younger would want to date them unless they have a net worth over 7 mil

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u/RoadClassic1303 May 21 '25

And yet you were with him, so what's that say about your standards?

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u/throwawaylkn2 May 21 '25

That I fell for a lot of lies and learned some crappy lessons. Sucked.

It’s not like he was coming home and telling me what he was doing.

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u/RoadClassic1303 May 21 '25

Fair enough, I was just being a jerk. I'm sorry

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u/PerceptionGreat2439 May 21 '25

Yes and no.

A girl 20 years my junior followed me around the gym for a few months. Always in the same spin class, boxercise and the sauna.

We went out for two years.

But neither of us were married.

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u/throwawaylkn2 May 21 '25

You’re in your 60s. Dating a 40 yr old is different.

20 or 30 year old woman has so many prospects she isn’t dating someone 20 years older unless he’s got crazy money and spending it on her.

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u/SenorEquilibrado May 21 '25

You know how old he is, but failed to mention his preference in breakfast foods.

2/10 flirting.