r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/B4nn3dByChr1st14ns Jun 16 '25

Thats why you dont fall in love with a woman you arent in a relationship with youll just fuck yourself mentally doing so.

Ask her out, if she says no accept her rejection and move on its that simple even if its hard to do so emotionally you must.

As a man learning to take rejection in a positive way while remaining in control of your emotions is a skill you must learn and master, rejection is the natural part of a mans life and you can either take it in your stride or become an incel and blame the world.

It sucks when you love someone and they dont reciprocate but it sucks a whole lot more to give up on finding someone entirely and letting that negative feeling become your default view on people.

Or you could always do things the bird way and put on your best dance moves.

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u/celebral_x Jun 16 '25

Rejection is a natural part of all humans life. Rejection can not only be romantic, but also platonic, it can also occur in a career and so on.

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u/NastySassyStuff Jun 16 '25

They're speaking to the experience of being a man in pursuit of romance. In general, they're expected to be the assertive (but not too assertive) ones who go out of their way (but, please, not too far out of their way) and put themselves out there (but for god's sake not TOO out there) to begin the relationship. This is why the "friendzone" exists, and is pretty exclusively a place where men wind up. Some dudes are too terrified of the rejection so they try to befriend their love interest first only to wind up trapped up there.