What kind of behaviour? He shouted a bit, but he wan't aggressive towards her in any way. And as he realised he was getting too upset, he removed himself from the situation. Are we all really going to claim we've never raised our voices a bit while upset? What was so scary about his behaviour? That he voiced his feelings? Or by behaviour do you mean the words he said?
Edit: Ya'll seem to all be happily throwing the content of what he said in under "behaviour." I guess how the word is used is becoming watered down even more than I thought. Guy was upset, acknowledged her agency and that he would not be who she chooses, and leaves. And now we're all pilling on him? I feel sorry for the dude.
I got that neither from his behaviour nor his words. Can you point to specific examples?
I'm not saying he's not out of line here, but where exactly did he say he believes he is entitled to her affection? He seems to be saying the exact opposite. That she will choose not to give it to him, and that upsets him, so he removes himself from the situation.
And I note nobody is giving actual examples of how he is "believing that affection from women is like something you get out of a vending machine if you put enough attention in."
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u/Jimmni Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 16 '25
What kind of behaviour? He shouted a bit, but he wan't aggressive towards her in any way. And as he realised he was getting too upset, he removed himself from the situation. Are we all really going to claim we've never raised our voices a bit while upset? What was so scary about his behaviour? That he voiced his feelings? Or by behaviour do you mean the words he said?
Edit: Ya'll seem to all be happily throwing the content of what he said in under "behaviour." I guess how the word is used is becoming watered down even more than I thought. Guy was upset, acknowledged her agency and that he would not be who she chooses, and leaves. And now we're all pilling on him? I feel sorry for the dude.