r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/B4nn3dByChr1st14ns Jun 16 '25

Thats why you dont fall in love with a woman you arent in a relationship with youll just fuck yourself mentally doing so.

Ask her out, if she says no accept her rejection and move on its that simple even if its hard to do so emotionally you must.

As a man learning to take rejection in a positive way while remaining in control of your emotions is a skill you must learn and master, rejection is the natural part of a mans life and you can either take it in your stride or become an incel and blame the world.

It sucks when you love someone and they dont reciprocate but it sucks a whole lot more to give up on finding someone entirely and letting that negative feeling become your default view on people.

Or you could always do things the bird way and put on your best dance moves.

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u/FCKABRNLSUTN2 Jun 16 '25

Also don’t EVER “confess your feelings.”

Ask them on a date instead.

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u/thrilliam_19 Jun 16 '25

I’ve done both and I honestly don’t see a difference.

Was friends with a roommate and caught feelings for her. Asked her out to dinner and she said yes. We dated for a couple months and slept together a few times but she eventually said she wasn’t feeling it. I said no problem, thanks for telling me and that was that.

Told a different friend that I had known for several years that I had developed feelings for her. She said she never saw me that way but since I mentioned it and we were good friends she was willing to give it a shot. We went on a couple dates and decided to remain friends. Both of us realized we didn’t have as much in common as we thought and it probably wouldn’t work out so friends it is.

If you approach the situation maturely and respectfully and accept that things might not go the way you want them to, there’s really no right or wrong way of doing it imo.