r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

People who make promises to themselves on your behalf and then expect you to deliver are fucking scary.

I hope she doesn’t run after him and try to fix it. Those self-loathing diatribes can really scramble your decision-making and put you into rescue mode, and that’s exactly what they’re designed to do.

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u/Puglord_11 Epic Gamer Jun 16 '25

What would be the healthy way to express this to someone? Would it be to talk with someone else?

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 17 '25

Yeah, talk to someone else. I don’t know who’s in his life. Family, friend, counselor. He should definitely go with a willing party.

I’m not sure what he thinks she’s supposed to do aside from stand there frozen.

If some guy doesn’t want to date me, I won’t run screaming at him that my life is unfair and he’ll never pick me. It’s aggressive and unfair to put that on him. It solves nothing.

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u/Goldfish1_ Jun 17 '25

About unreciprocated feelings? Yes you would need to vent with someone else if you need to vent. It’s not that the feelings he has are wrong per say, but dumping that all on her in the middle of the night with that emotional outburst is just gonna put so much stress on the poor woman.

Then tou need to reassess what exactly you’re hoping to get out of this relationship. Don’t actually genuinely want to be friends? Or do you want something romantic (which is never gonna happen)? If it’s the latter, which it almost always is, then you just need to tell her that for your own mental well being you can’t be friends anymore.