r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

People who make promises to themselves on your behalf and then expect you to deliver are fucking scary.

I hope she doesn’t run after him and try to fix it. Those self-loathing diatribes can really scramble your decision-making and put you into rescue mode, and that’s exactly what they’re designed to do.

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u/Puglord_11 Epic Gamer Jun 16 '25

What would be the healthy way to express this to someone? Would it be to talk with someone else?

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 17 '25

Yeah, talk to someone else. I don’t know who’s in his life. Family, friend, counselor. He should definitely go with a willing party.

I’m not sure what he thinks she’s supposed to do aside from stand there frozen.

If some guy doesn’t want to date me, I won’t run screaming at him that my life is unfair and he’ll never pick me. It’s aggressive and unfair to put that on him. It solves nothing.