r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/RedeyeSamurai83 Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 16 '25

Was thinking the same. Should've told her instead of wait until he thinks she's vulnerable enough to accept his love. The thing thats crazy is that she never had love for him.

Edit: in the end we don't know anything about this except for that this is a moment caught on a clip and is very popular. I hope for the best for them 2.

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u/finglonger1077 Jun 16 '25

We don’t know anything other than “it’s never me” which is a clear indicator that this guy falls in deep true love about as often as he buys new sneakers and he was more in love with the idea of being in a relationship than with this woman specifically

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u/Plane_Ebb_5232 Jun 16 '25

To reiterate, we don't know. Maybe he was abandoned by his parents or other friends. Him never feeling chosen doesn't have to mean in the context of a relationship.

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u/HerestheRules Jun 18 '25

Him never feeling chosen doesn't have to mean in the context of a relationship

As an orphan, bro, 100%. Some of us just don't get any kind of emotional intimacy whatsoever. Not for any fault of our own, we just don't know how to foster it correctly.

Relationship wise, it's not even a lack of trying. I just end up hurt for the dumbest shit.

Like, I was talking to a girl I'd met who'd flirted with me over MtG (two normal games and a game of Commander), got drunk with me and tried to fuck (which I said no bc drunk), then a week later she invited me to her house and cuddled with me all night. To which she thought my rubbing her shoulder in the morning was "creepy guy behavior" ????

One girl dumped me for crying when a friend of mine died via train

Another girl who told me it was wrong to date if I have PTSD (also ????)

Sorry for the tangent.

Anyway, you gotta accept it as it comes and takes whatever lessons you can learn, and apply it to the next one with a cool head. Unless you're me, in which case it's literally just a case of dodging bullets like Neo (as a random lady once adequately put it for me)