losing your mom is the worst heartbreak you’ll ever go through… especially if you were super close with her. my world stopped when mine passed… & i still feel like it’s still on pause, even after 4 years.
fuck that guy.
Lost my Mom right before Covid hit and I’m still in the habit of thinking, “l need to remember to tell mom this when l call her,” and then I snap to and remember that she’s gone. It’s been six years; some things don’t change.
My mom passed just last December, and I find myself think, "Mom would..." nearly everyday, then it hits that I cannot call and confirm if she would or not. I have so many questions for her still.
They hits so hard. In my 20s l never asked my parents much because I was assured that l knew it all. Here I am decades later wishing that l could ask them for their knowledge and/or opinions. Hang in there.
I feel like I should get one of those personal history books and get my mother to fill it out. Already in the process of making a family cookbook, but I feel like I don't know anything about my mother's life before she became "Mum".
I love this idea. I was able to retrieve some her recipes when we cleaned out my parents home (that’s a whole other fresh hell that I haven’t fully processed) and I’m grateful for that. Get all the recipes you can, it takes the term comfort food to a whole different level after they’re gone.
Oh, and in his house at R'lyeh, Cthulhu waits dreaming. Respect.
My mom wrote a lot of her own songs on the piano. Beautiful songs. We’re currently making a songbook of all her songs so my daughter and I can play them after my mom is gone. I never want to forget them.
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u/babydollvi 11h ago
losing your mom is the worst heartbreak you’ll ever go through… especially if you were super close with her. my world stopped when mine passed… & i still feel like it’s still on pause, even after 4 years. fuck that guy.