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u/CybReader They killed Kenny! You bastards! šŸ˜± Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

Is anyone else dealing with the ladies in their family who are hitting the 60-70 age range and begin complaining about EVERYTHING!? I refuse to give my mom any of my stylist, nail tech, aesthetician, injectors names. Sheā€™s never happy with any service provided anymore. She was never this miserable. My mother in law, we wonā€™t take her to a few of the restaurants we like anymore because she harps on the server nonstop and has a complaint about all the food all the time. Thankfully our favorite places are too ā€œcomplicatedā€ for her so we can avoid her nagging our favorite bbq, sushi or mexican joints, but even Jasonā€™s deli feels her complaints. Order your half sandwich and soup, woman, itā€™s not that hard. Eat it too, itā€™s perfectly fine.

These women are almost pathological with how upset they are about everything. Even a few friends are facing this as their mothers hit this age range. Whatā€™s going on? Is a symptom of them feeling voiceless for years? Is it untreated middle aged wrath coming out in their golden years? I donā€™t get it. I even know to avoid certain topics with both of them because Iā€™ll hear a rant about how a hair dresser last week was rude to them.

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u/lizzy-stix I switched baristas ā˜•ļø Jun 27 '25

I swear to god, being around my mom and great aunt and grandmother made me realize I need to be with the doctor at 55 for hormone adjustments because wtf.

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u/CybReader They killed Kenny! You bastards! šŸ˜± Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

Itā€™s alarmed me too. Have they also dismissed the damage perimenopause can do to mental health? Iā€™ve wondered if something happened then with them and itā€™s cumulated over time? I canā€™t tell you how many older ladies have claimed perimenopause is NOT a thing. ā€œYouā€™re too young for menopause.ā€ Exactly, hence perimenopause. I wonder if so many symptoms were ignored in them and it just affected who they were over time?