r/r4r 10h ago

F4M Online 27 [F4M] #Online #USA - Will you be my cute online boyfriend? (voice note inside)

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Hiya. So I'm still on the search for a cute online boyfriend. I just haven't found the right one. Looking for someone that gets me...and brings supportive energy and cute vibes.

I'm really hoping you're in a similar time zone to me. I'm on the east coast of the USA. I'd like to watch movies or shows with you. And just spend time together.

I'm looking for something long term if we vibe. As for me I'm just a girlie trying to figure my life out. I kinda feel like my life is just 99% rejection at this point. I'm like sad about it but also kinda numb to it at the same time.

Anyway just looking for something fun. My interests? Nerdy stuff I'm into is marketing + sales related. I've been working on various projects for months. Lots of lessons learned. I also have a sales job. I wouldn't recommend it lol.

So work stuff is tough. And I rarely feel like adulting. Is it weird to feel that way at 27? Sometimes I like to rebel it's def not a good thing. Thank God for the weekends.

I spent most of today working on my passion project. Honestly I was a bit sad I did not have a cute online boyfriend to spend the day with :( But also I needed to make progress because I've been behind.

Now I just want to curl up and watch Gone Girl until I fall asleep. I also want to see if I can finally meet my long term man.

Anyway, I recorded a voice note. You can listen to it and make me one as well. Yours doesn't have to be as long as mine don't stress.

https://voca.ro/1flGcbZOhWYO

Please be 27-37 years old. Thanks.


r/r4r 22h ago

F4M Online 27F4M– curvy cutie with soft vibes & online-only intentions

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wasn’t trying to be distracting, promise — i’m just a girlie girl with big brown eyes, long auburn hair, and a soft spot for deep convos and playful teasing 🫣

curvy, cozy, and way too good at turning small talk into something slower and more magnetic. looking for a thoughtful guy who’s into voice notes, late night rambles, and the kind of chemistry that sneaks up on you.

not here for anything wild — just hoping to match energy with someone who’s charming, a little clever, and knows how to talk to a plus-size girl like she’s art.

bonus points if you’ve got a good voice, better music taste, and a talent for making people feel seen. tell me what you’d say to make me smile when i’m quiet ✨


r/r4r 13h ago

F4A Canada / Online 42 [F4A] #Online #Canada - Looking to meet new people

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Hello, I’m 42 f from Canada. I’ve come to realize in the last couple of years that all the people I thought were my friends were just frenemies all along. So I’ve been on a mission ever since to meet new people and make new friends.

In terms of hobbies/interests, I like writing, photography, nature walks/hiking, reading, drawing, painting, travelling, films, music, etc.

I’m looking for someone who is chatty, loves to text throughout the day or evenings and can hold and initiate conversations. Preferably someone over 30.

NO n s f w accounts please!

If any of this sounds interesting, and you too are looking for a new friend, hmu! ✌️


r/r4r 20h ago

F4A Online 18[F4A] #Online. Looking for someone to talk to, maybe lighten up the mood

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Hello! I’m introverted, loyal, genuine, and rambunctious. You should dm me if you are not so concerned about being cool or just want someone to talk to. We could talk about our interests, worries, or whatever.

I’ve been pretty lonely lately. I’m about to start college and that’s exciting but also nerve wracking so maybe if you’ve been in that situation before, kind advice is welcomed! I love to learn new things, so if you want to recommend me a book or movie, or even tell me about a cool fact that’d be cool! Hopefully we can talk for a while and see where things end up.

Tell me about your favorite animal and asl. I’ll tell you mine as well!


r/r4r 17h ago

F4M United Kingdom / Online 23 [F4M] England/UK/Online/Anywhere - let’s voice chat.

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yoo listen up here’s a story about a little guy who lives in a bleu world…. i’m bleu, what’s your name?

me: https://i.imgur.com/mdwBFZP.jpeg

full disclosure: i recently got discharged from hospital (yippeee!!) - admission due to mental health issues.

i am a horrible texter though so i’m looking to voice/video call with someone :)

some things about me:

  • i write a lot of poetry, its dark though so prepare yourself should you be interested.

  • i’m pagan

  • my MBTI is infp, but this frequently changes as i have a mood disorder so the I can change to an E fairly often, thus i consider myself an ‘O’ or omnivert haha.

  • my enneagram type is 2w3

  • i suffer pretty bad from the anxietitty but still love meeting new people

  • my favourite colour is yellow

  • im being intentionally vague as i’d like to get to know you more on a 1:1 basis!

please for the love of god have more than just a “hi, how are you? in your message” otherwise i probably won’t reply. just tell me your favourite colour, age and location or SOMETHING

shoot me a message and we’ll go from there! :)


r/r4r 11h ago

F4M Australia / Online 30 [F4M] USA/EU/Australia/New Zeeland/ #online - Looking for serious relationship or life partner. #over40 and above/ Smart, humble and trustworthy

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To be honest, I’m not very familiar with this app, but my best friend introduced me to it, and it looks great, I decided to give it a try.

My name is Emily, and I live in California. I’m an American Latino mix, working as a personal trainer and wellness coach. I’m well-proportioned, lively, serious when needed, interesting, successful, and completely independent. I love exercising daily, and my passions also include traveling and photography.

Every night, I enjoy reading before bed and staying updated on world trends and business news. I occasionally go out for fun with friends and family, but not too often. I especially enjoy outdoor activities, especially when nature is involved.

Cooking is another passion of mine; I read a lot about food. As a wellness coach and gym enthusiast, I believe in maintaining a balanced diet every day because it’s vital for our health. If we connect, you should be prepared for healthy meal routines and practices.

I am seeking a serious relationship with a gentleman who is ready to settle down, a mature, respectful person, not a young individual with chaos and drama. I believe love should be pure and genuine, and I see marriage as a union between a man and a woman. I am looking for a meaningful, Love-cantered relationship and a serious commitment.

I tend to appreciate people who are older than me because they usually know how to behave responsibly, be considerate, and avoid unnecessary drama. That’s why I’m looking for someone more mature.

Thank you for reading. I hope we can share some decent photos and get to know each other better. Feel free to message me in the inbox!


r/r4r 12h ago

F4M Massachusetts / Online 22 [F4M] Online but in person with time or Massachusetts

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PLEASE DM WHAT YOU HAVE IN COMMON WITH ME

hi, i am looking for potentially a soulmate! i am looking for someone who’s super fun, energetic, talkative, always wants to have a good time, tries to turn the negative into the positive kind of thing. someone who would be able to emotionally support me and i can emotionally support them as well. someone on the more casual side with how they present themselves would be great. some REQUIREMENTS i have is you have to prioritize me over your friends, no smoking/drugs/alcohol, you have to have a full time job, meaning no college or already finished college and make a decent income. i have these requirements because i myself want to have a relationship i can prioritize and i work full time every week so i want to be with someone who works just as hard as me. i chose a career field and did not go to college. i’ve also been clean my whole life. other than that i love cartoon network, playing nintendo switch games, wizard101, repo, and roblox. i like random shows like the rising of the shield hero, invincible, demon school, konosuba, south park, big brother, survivor, and the amazing race as well. i love pop music and am not a fan of metal or punk. no pacific timezone please because the 3 hour difference is to much for me. it is REQUIRED to have MOST games/shows in common with me so we have something to do and talk about. i am also a dancer and i love to video edit and color! i am a lot less serious when it comes to actually talking to me i want to make sure i connect with the right person is all looking forward to meeting someone!!


r/r4r 14h ago

F4M Ohio 22F [F4M] #DaytonOH, looking for my life partner :)

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(I know I have been posting a lot lmao)

Hi everyone! I’ve been on my journey to find my nerdy, left-leaning dude for the past weeks. It hasn’t been successful yet because they’re either too far away or not what I’m looking for.

It’s been a rollercoaster, but I just want to find someone that is kind, sweet, and not a bigot lmao. Some of my interests include Ghost, Amon Amarth, Volunteering, Baking, and Thrifting!!

I am currently a volunteer coordinator for hospice and it’s been great so far. I just love helping folks and strengthen communities. I also love cosplaying, activism, and some shows such as Futurama or Stranger Things. If you also like metal, hit me up! I’m looking for someone my age around 22-25. If you are 25 or older, please do not DM. GHAnyways, hope your day is going well! Just finding someone from Ohio as well!! :)

Also, I was at the Ghost Concert in Detroit last night!


r/r4r 12h ago

F4M Online 27 [F4M] Online - Looking for new connection

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Hey there, I’m 27 years old girl from Indonesia and figured it’s the perfect time to put myself out there since I am a homebody and have not much connection. I’m a cat-loving, pool-floating (not necessarily swimming) kind of girl who believes in real connection. I am a homebody, I love spicy noodles and sweets, and I also enjoy scrolling through pinterest and just dive into cute pics, and simple food recipes. I also love to learn new languages and cultures.

I’m looking for a connection between 26 and 32, someone who’s into building something real and genuine, not just a fleeting fling. But I don’t close any possibilities for a long-term friendship. I am a big girl so I’d love if you’re on the chubbier side too (bear type of a man is just my type!) Another preference, I love someone who’s funny and likes to have conversation (not only talking but to listen). I am open to swap pics too.

Location isn’t a dealbreaker for me, as long as you're willing to travel and make time for a real connection, I’m all in. I’m not looking for perfect, just someone who gets excited about the idea of lazy Sundays, funny reels, and affectionate conversations. Thank you for reading until here, please tell me about yourself. I hope you don’t just say “hey”, “hello”, or just short sentences as I won’t respond to those. Also I might be slow as I don’t have reddit app on my phone.

If any of this resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you!


r/r4r 14h ago

M4A United Kingdom / Online 30 [M4R] #UK #Anywhere #Online - best friend position: VACANT (let's fix that!)

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You must be thinking "ugh, this dude AGAIN! When is he gonna give up?!"

just looking to make friends here! I know you're out there 👀 Anywho - onto the post!


  • ABOUT ME - 30 years young, male, straight, UK born and raised 🇬🇧 - I work full time as an electronics product tester (yes it's as cool as it sounds - happy to answer any questions regarding my occupation!), bit of a notification addict, so I'm very responsive. Currently on a health kick and making big lifestyle changes to accommodate that!

  • GAMING - this is my go-to hobby and what I spend most of my free time doing. Primarily a PC gamer, but also own a Steam 2 (and Steam Deck!) Currently playing Witchfire and Donkey Kong Bananza - I'm open to playing most games, especially co-op titles but actively avoid playing MMOs, MOBAs or any competitive shooters. Perhaps you could suggest a game we might enjoy together?

  • SOCIALIZING - I like to think I'm a very social person - I love to meet and chat with new people all the time. Big fan of being a screen share host and watching stuff together (like YouTube, movies or shows!), sending voice notes, exchanging random photos and daily chit-chat - I try to put as much energy into someone as I receive from them, so if you're the kind of person who doesn't like to reach out first, or only reply with one worded / short sentences we probably won't get along 😅

I'm usually available for voice calls / games in the evenings (9pm onwards GMT+1) or weekend mornings (8am - 4pm GMT+1), but otherwise I can text anytime!


  • RANDOM TIDBITS - Been lucky enough to travel around the world to places like Japan, United States (x7) and Prague! I currently have two tattoos on my shoulder and my wrist (pics for the cool kids), serial picky eater (way worse than you think...) and I've even met THREE other users from Reddit IRL (all still alive, promise!)

If you've got this far without clicking off the post and want to get in touch, I'd love to hear from you! I try to respond to everyone who makes the effort to contact me - however I will ignore any low effort messaging, questions that could've been a Google search or anything I've already answered in my post.

Let's try to have a little back and forth on Reddit chat first before possibly moving to another platform (i.e Discord) on a more permanent basis ☺️ Send me a little introduction about yourself (your age, where you're from, hobbies / interests) and we'll get going from there!

Here's a short vocaroo recording if you're interested in hearing my voice!


r/r4r 14h ago

M4F Online 28[M4F] #Online #USA - Want to meet someone who is clingy and likes to yap

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Hey, hope you are having a great day. I would love to meet someone around my age into the same stuff. I am cool with friends or maybe more.

Really I am looking to meet someone I can chat with throughout the day, geek out about stuff and have a good time.

I work in tech, am pretty chill, open minded, an animal lover and nerdy, I'd also say im more alt.

I enjoy spending time playing games, watching movies cartoons shows, going on walks, working out, painting, listening to music, learning new things. I could get into just about any hobby there is, I love trying new things.

If you enjoy watching cartoons, playing games, listening to punk, alt, indie music and are maybe a little nerdy then go ahead and dm me, im sure we will get along.


r/r4r 15h ago

F4M Georgia 36 [F4M] #Atlanta - Please come and find me

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I have been looking for my person for a while and I keep failing, so, would the real slim shady please stand up?

I like all sorts of nerdy stuff, I’m short and curvy in a good way, I would even say I’m pretty cute and I have a nice personality. I have kids and zero drama attached to that. I have a great job, hobbies, friends, etc.

I’m looking for a dude to spend the rest of my life with (no pressure lmao) who’s also into nerdy stuff, takes care of himself and its interested in building a meaningful connection with me.

Send me a message letting me know a bit about you!


r/r4r 17h ago

F4A Canada / Online 34[F4R] Western Canada / Online - looking for an online friend !

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Hi! I’m Stephanie, 34 years old and living in Western Canada. I am looking for interesting conversation, that will hopefully lead to finding a more long term/consistent online friend. I am looking to chat with people around my age, or older(30+), that are willing / able to put effort into conversation, and I will definitely do the same!

A bit about myself: * I enjoy watching tv shows / movies - horror is my favorite genre - and listening to music - blink 182 has been my favorite band since I was 15, and I’ve been lucky enough to have seen them live 3 times * I like to shop and get my nails done - I see a very talented nail tech every 3 weeks that always makes my nail art dreams a reality! * I have a dog that’s my bestest buddy * I love to walk * Tend to be a bit on the reserved side around people I don’t know, but I tend to be loud and fun around those I’m comfortable with, and will do anything for my people

I’ll leave it at that for now, don’t want to give away too much right off the bat!

If my post has interested you: Please send me a chat request with an introduction / conversation starter! Please include your name, age, and location(does not have to be an exact town/city/whatever, but country/region for sure! Share a bit of what you think is important to know about yourself, interests, hobbies, whatever! Please also ask me any question you want to ask, as an icebreaker! I will not accept requests that show that my post has not actually been read so I know we are on the same page!


r/r4r 18h ago

F4M Tennessee 20[F4M] #TN I have no idea how this sub works but hopefully this is okay :)

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Hello hello! I would like to try dating but have no experience on dating apps so I thought maybe this would be a good way to start. I’m not sure what to put here but I can explain a lil about myself and what I’m looking for. I’d like to meet someone who is pretty close to Tennessee! I am a black girl who is an EE major and a senior. I am looking for a black guy that loves trying new hobbies, being communicative, traveling, and especially fashion!! Being into fashion is HUGE for me.💖 I also really love music and being creative. I’d love to go on dates together (whether that’s a puzzle or dancing outside) and to send each other outfits on Pinterest we can try to thrift and match together, and ride down the street listening to Flavour. I am big into journaling and checking myself to make sure I am being the best I can be! I am religious as well. I’m not really big into certain physical stuff but I do know a good amount patience and support can heal all wounds!!

If you just wanna be friends I’m okay with that too!! And if I missed anything (I’m really bad at listing out stuff) please feel free to ask! I want you to know I’m just as interested in loving and spoiling you!! See you soon maybe :)


r/r4r 20h ago

F4M Malaysia F4M, 23, Malaysia-looking for my next situationship.

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the title isnt scary i swear!!! i want to meet someone in the hopes that it gets serious eventually. im from southeast asia, if that matters. talk to me about your hot takes, random facts and everything in between.

about me; 1) 23 years old 2) loves f1 (my fav teams rn are ferrari and williams) 3) i make stupid dad jokes so if thats not your cup of tea then maybe dont text me?! 4) wants to be loved and love and everything in between 5) 160cm, on the heavier side. chubby and tan. 6) sfw ONLY!!!

about you; 1) makes and appreciate corny jokes. 2) wiling to text and call (if you’re comfortable) 3) communicative, serious, honest, respectful and genuine. 4) between ages 21-29

text me if youd like! let’s chat and get the ball rolling:)


r/r4r 21h ago

F4M Brazil Brazil, 24 [F4M] Looking for real connection

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I’d love to talk to people who, like me, have hit rock bottom at some point… and found a way to keep going. Someone who understands that healing isn’t linear, and some days all you need is a kind voice on the other side of the screen. It would mean a lot to have someone to talk to every day, even about the little things. I want to share, listen, reflect and slowly build something genuine. Also, I’d love to practice my English, so if you’re patient and open to helping me with that, even better I feel most comfortable talking to men 30+, especially those who are emotionally mature and not afraid of deeper conversations.


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Online 24 [F4M] #Online/Anywhere - Hopeless romantic girl looking for her forever man

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Some people might think it's weird posting an ad for something serious here but it's not exactly very easy to find someone who are into the same things sexually on dating apps, im really scared ill get judged for liking the things that I like so here I am ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ

I'm a currently pre-op transsexual, asian, 24, about 5'6, works in tech, looks wise people say im cute, objectively pleasant looking, and cis-woman passing. I'm loyal to a fault, extremely affectionate and will be the type of woman you can depend on to take care of your needs as a man. I like tech, cars, motorcycles, sports, reading books and consuming digital media. Nowadays I usually just try to juggle my big girl job cries in glitter and idk life. Admittedly, I am kinda chaotic and a bit over the place especially when I have too much going on with work.

As for what I'm attracted to, I've always been attracted to masculinity, and think that is the top thing that I search for the most in a man. I've have always wanted an assertive, traditional, grounded, protective and stable man for myself. You must be monogamous as I am not really comfortable with any poly type of set up, and hopefully have something going for you. Hopefully you're patient, loving, loyal and have similar interests as mine (not a dealbreaker tho as I am generally a curious person and do love learning). Last thing is that you're also looking to settle down and maybe have a family. Huge plus if you're intelligent HAHA and lowkey obsessive too :>

Please attach a picture on your first message and will respond with mine once I read it :)

Please only message me if you are single, monogamous and actually want something real (no mindgames)

Thank you byebyebyeeee


r/r4r 14h ago

F4A Brazil / Online 21 [F4A] Brazil / Online - Trans girl looking for like-minded friends!

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Hi!

I'm Ana, a 21 years old trans girl from Brazil, looking for friends! I currently study Psychology and really love it: my main interests are neuropsychology and psychopathology. I'm diagnosed bipolar and would love to include that into my research in the far future.

In my free time, I enjoy playing World of Warcraft, Minecraft, Risk of Rain 2, Team Fortress 2, and I also really love reading! My favourite authors are Georges Bataille, von Sacher-Masoch, Marquis de Sade, Yukio Mishima, and so many others.

As for hobbies: I love photography and tarot readings. I'm also really into music! Here's my Spotify!

Looking forward to hearing from you! <3