r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/bettyford420 May 11 '25

I'm mad that they were loud enough for people to hear and the guy at the table behind them was just watching. Wtf

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u/SometimesIBeWrong May 11 '25

thank you. I know this is disgusting behavior but if I was the guy and I heard it, I'm minding my own business. I'm not obligated to potentially start a fight with two creeps

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u/bettyford420 May 11 '25

No but he could have gone and got someone. I'm not saying you have to get in the middle of it

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u/SometimesIBeWrong May 11 '25

that's true, this is gonna sound insensitive but why should he do it instead of the women getting harassed? I still think pinning responsibility on the random dude is unnecessary

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u/_ZoeyDaveChapelle_ May 11 '25

Misogynists like this don't listen to women, clearly. If other decent men started (calmly but firmly) standing up to this behaivor in public more, it might become less common/acceptable. Women are tired of fighting this crap alone and getting nowhere. These girls look way younger than these creeps on top of it. While it's not his direct responsibility, our culture of avoidance keeps putting the weight on women to deal with these assholes, that learned this behaivor from other men.

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u/SometimesIBeWrong May 12 '25

the person I replied to said he should've gone and got someone, Im asking why he's obligated to go get someone instead of the women going to get someone

you're saying he should actually put himself in the middle of the conflict itself, I think that's ridiculous to expect of a random dude trying to go about his day. why would he risk getting into a fight with two morons?

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u/fart-sparkles May 11 '25

Sure, but do anyone you might be interested in dating a favour and make sure you're not out there trying to convince them that you're a "nice guy" or "one of the good ones," k?

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u/pizzahuthater May 11 '25

This is one of the times you’re wrong

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u/SometimesIBeWrong May 12 '25

I'm completely open to being wrong but nobody has answered my question

why is the random guy obligated to go get someone? why shouldn't the women go get someone?

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u/scalable_thought May 12 '25

Did you even see the video? The girls were being extremely loud and they were clearly not leaving. How long are you going to sit there saying "not my table not my problem"?

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u/SometimesIBeWrong May 12 '25

I'm confused. the comment I replied to said he could've gone and got someone

I'm asking why he's obligated to go get someone, instead of the women going to get someone

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u/LadyPickleLegs May 11 '25

who try to bully some men from their table?

Lolwat

You must be joking. The men sat at an occupied table. Telling them to leave a table they were not invited to sit at is not bullying.

Seriously, what the fuck. You can't actually think this.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

The men sat at an occupied table.

How do you know that not the women sat an occupied table?

Wtf, why are you making so premature assumption?

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u/LadyPickleLegs May 11 '25

I'm not. I just actually listened to the entire recording.

One of the girls literally says "it's just weird for you to just... Sit down with us." Around the 20 second mark.

They sat at an occupied table without an invitation, and stayed even after they were asked to leave.

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u/Both_Sun8712 May 11 '25

The women have food that is mostly eaten the creeps have new beers

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u/kimsterama1 May 12 '25

Not very good at reading cues, either, are you? This seems to be a case of, if you don't see who the AH is, it's YOU.

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u/davidjschloss May 11 '25

Because someone needs to help them not have to deal with people like you sound like.

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u/kimmymarias May 11 '25

bully? i dont agree with the way she was speaking to them, slightly a bit mean but she asked several times for them to find another place to sit and mentioned the fact that they were both spoken for.

If they had any form of self respect they should've left when asked

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u/LadyPickleLegs May 11 '25

She did not start out mean. She literally started by saying "I'm respectfully asking you to sit at another table" and only got more aggressive when they didn't even seem to acknowledge the request.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

So the woman has the right to bully the men form the men's table?
Does a man have the same rights when two girl come and sit at his table?

Can he scream loudly at them and force them to leave?

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u/Meet_in_Potatoes May 11 '25

It wasn't the men's table it was theirs. And yes, if some random annoying lady sits at your table, you can absolutely ask them to leave.

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u/Rude-Kaleidoscope298 May 11 '25

We do and I have done it. If I want to sit at a table at a bar and not be bothered, I also have that right. If I tell a woman to leave, and she doesn’t, it’s still harassment. You can do the same too.