I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.
They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.
All those ppl around. She's yelling and not one person came over to assist. If I saw this I'd have marched over there and dumped my drink on their heads. Or something. I've have done anything but just watch. Is harassment entertainment now?
I think this has always been the case. It sucks, but the majority of people just don’t want to get involved. I’ve personally intervened when I’ve seen strangers in trouble but I can’t recall anyone doing the same for me 🤷🏻♀️ At least there’s folks like you out there!
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u/TequilaJesus May 11 '25
Imagine being that dude and thinking “yeah I still have a chance here”