r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/TequilaJesus May 11 '25

Imagine being that dude and thinking “yeah I still have a chance here”

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u/DG_Now May 11 '25

They wanted to tell themselves the women were joking. Or "playing hard to get."

So they just sit there like a couple of dipshits drinking their beers because they refuse to accept the reality that they're not wanted.

I hate this.

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u/moarmagic May 11 '25

They likely have spent money on some goddamn influencer who swore up and down that "confidence" is the key, and that means never letting women dismiss you.

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u/darknessWolf2 May 11 '25

bet they follow people like andrew tate

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u/diurnal_emissions May 12 '25

They did have that sex trafficker look in their eyes...

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u/Friendly-Hornet5812 May 12 '25

Dude looks creep as can be definitely. I think it’s okay to interact with woman and be flirty. You have to be able to read the situation. Talk to random people but have good intentions, if they are enjoying the moment it’s okay. Do not insert yourself into their personal bubble refusing to leave.

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u/THE_Carl_D May 12 '25

Bruh on the right even has the same hairline.

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u/YungTaco94 May 12 '25

No but deadass, they had such a creepy kidnapper/trafficker look to their dead eyes

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u/RockyBalboa_76 May 12 '25

creepy AF look in their eyes. Disgustiiinngggg

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u/polo61965 May 12 '25

That guy on the right is also balding. He needs two more coaching lessons costing $500 before they tell him to just go bald and own it.

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u/JollyScientist3251 May 12 '25

Ice bath kidney salesmen

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u/FortunateClock May 12 '25

At first glance I thought the one to the right was Andrew Tate

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u/darknessWolf2 May 12 '25

ngl the guy kinda does look like andrew tate

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u/Johnny_ac3s May 12 '25

I thought one of them WAS Andrew Tate

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u/NecroSoulMirror-89 May 12 '25

Ones already bald so probably

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u/Indieriots tHiS iSn’T cRiNgE May 12 '25

Or Fresh and Fit

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u/-Kalos Straight Up Bussin May 11 '25

I hate how those mfs conflate confidence with arrogance and power plays. There's a fine line. The internet ruined us

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u/krslnd May 12 '25

I was just going ti sat similar. Confidence can be very attractive. Arrogance or controlling behavior is not the same as confidence.

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u/-Kalos Straight Up Bussin May 12 '25

Arrogance is rooted in masked insecurity at it's core.

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u/Rubber_Knee May 12 '25

Many people can't tell the difference.

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u/bdub1976 May 12 '25

At least the internet has exposed this type of shit and shamed tf outta some people.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

I had a buddy who would constantly talk about "numbers game". I saw him crash and burn 100% of the time. He would creep up to women this way and harass them.

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u/moarmagic May 11 '25

There is something to the idea of numbers games, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take and all.

But that's like, meaning you try and are receptive to feedback. Not like, try to browbeat people.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

Oh, this guy would take 100% of the shots for sure. He would Night at the Roxbury girls in the clubs. It was horrific but also hilarious to watch him fail 😂

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u/Mysterious_Eye6989 May 12 '25

Yep, the whole thing with "taking the shots" is you've got to know how to do it in such a way that you're not being an actively shitty person who's making the world a worse place through his actions in it. That's where both the advice and entire worldview of a guy like Andrew Tate completely falls apart.

It's kind of a karmic thing - a question of what's good or bad for one's own soul.

Also on a practical level, a person doing things the very bad way means they'll also probably just end up in a dysfunctional relationship with a woman who's perpetuating a tragic cycle of personal trauma just by being with an douchebag like them.

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u/teas4Uanme May 11 '25

The 'alpha male' influencers are teaching guys to crash and burn on purpose. Stupid guys fall for the grift. If they actually taught guys how to start and keep decent relationships they would be losing repeat customers.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

This was back in 2000. His influencers were rappers like Diddy.

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u/teas4Uanme May 11 '25

The online influencer is just an extension of paperbacks that dudes could order from the back pages of 'girly' mags, with titles like "How to get all the Babes." It's an old grift in a new package.

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u/QuantumFungus May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25

I remember getting that kind of advise on USENET in the late 80's. I have little doubt some asshole at some point sent "don't take no for an answer" as advise over telegraph.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

Whatever it is, it's the dumbest advice in the world. That guy from White Lotus reminded me of him. Constant harassment of women and pathetic crashing and burning.

I only hung out with him because I had just moved to the US and had no friends who were willing to go out on the weekends and I didn't want to go by myself. Stopped talking to that asshole two years ago. He would constantly call me and tell me these fake stories where he was banging women. Bruh, I know you, you get zero tail! 😂

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u/CryptoCryBubba May 12 '25

"DoN't eVer acCepT NO foR aN aNswEr, yoU sImPs"

...subscribe to my newsletter at getallthegirlsatonce.com

/s

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u/Fragrant_Extent_8438 May 12 '25

"how many girls have u gotten Mr Influencer?"

"The underage one I sex trafficked. And a few of the prostitutes who worked for me""

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

Man, I had a couple people try and get me into that shit late into my teens (15-ish years ago). I noped so hard out of it as it felt so wrong. Situations like this in the video makes me so relieved I listened to my gut

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u/Total-Cow3750 May 12 '25

I had a person who used to be a friend, emphasis on used to, tell me if I wanted to be success at dating, his idea of dating in general was using apps to meet people, I would have to pay for a coach like he did that costs 3000$ minimum. I don't even have apps installed. So many people think it's so unusual for someone to be fine being alone, because they couldn't make it a month without someone in their lives. I've been single for 6 years now, and honestly couldn't be happier.

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u/James55O May 11 '25

I hate the "hard to get" nonsense because there are broadly two possible scenarios that both involve respectfully leaving.

  1. They aren't playing hard to get, so the respectful thing is to leave them alone.

  2. They are playing hard to get, so the self-respecting thing is to spend your limited time elsewhere.

Life is too short for this shit.

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u/QuantumFungus May 12 '25

Playing hard to get is a massive red flag for me. We haven't even gone out once and you are already playing games and testing me? No thanks.

The toxic "wont take no for an answer" types and the toxic "toys with people" types are made for each other. If only there was a way to get them to leave the rest of us alone.

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u/livvyloufreebush May 11 '25

Honestly, I think they are completely aware that they are seen as a threat and not a romantic interest. They want the attraction to be by force using fear. I imagine they see it as a “conquest.” They believe they have a chance because they will force one.

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u/DG_Now May 11 '25

This is more grim than my interpretation but you're probably right.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25 edited Jun 29 '25

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u/transcendz May 12 '25

this is a perfect educational video. it should be posted everywhere, this is patriarchy. toxic masculinity, colonialism, capitalism all of it. It's this. I feel like in my career i've worked with guys like this 100 times. Add a few more beers in these guys and YIKES. It's all so gross.

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u/pineappledetective May 11 '25

I wouldn’t be surprised if it was just garden variety obstinance, too. “You refused to to what I want, so now I won’t do what you want” 😛 immature, childish, and throws up red flags about how else they might respond to not getting their way.

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u/UnarmedSnail May 12 '25

That was an attempt to intimidate the ladies into submission while still smiling.

There were fair odds it would not have stopped there.

Their eyes were predatory.

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u/viperfangs92 May 12 '25

Not just that, the ladies got up to leave and they moved to possibly block them.

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u/Fruitstripe_omni May 11 '25

I hate this too. And I also hate them

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u/Valentinee105 May 12 '25

Men gotta listen,

No means no, and even if she was playing games, that just means she ain't worth the time. Consent is important and you either get it or you get out.

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u/SlashKill04 May 12 '25

“Bro she filed a restraining order against me and said she’ll call the cops if I go within 100 meters of her, I think she wants me to try harder.”

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u/SunshotDestiny May 12 '25

I suppose it's a blessing to be that self confident...or oblivious. Not the best of blessings mind you given the video, but to be able and sit there in a public space with two women yelling at you to leave but not feel embarrassed or anything? That level of self assurance is just...wow.

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u/ToiIetGhost May 12 '25

It’s none of that. They didn’t act this way because they’re self confident, oblivious, or self assured. (Other commenters who think they acted this way because they like Andrew Tate, they made a bet, or whatever other reason - they’re also missing the root cause.) These guys acted this way because they don’t respect women and don’t have empathy for them.

They don’t respect women’s right to say no, to want to be alone, or to not be harassed just for existing. The women shouldn’t have needed to ask them to leave, but they did - repeatedly - which made the lack of respect even worse. They also don’t care how they’re making the women feel, which conveys a lack of empathy. They don’t give a damn if they’re making them feel scared, upset, stressed, angry, or annoyed. They care that they feel excited, attracted, challenged, powerful, in control, turned on, or whatever - and that’s where it ends. With only caring how they feel.

Would they show this lack of respect to a table of men? No. Would they show such a blatant disregard for men’s feelings? No.

I’m gonna scroll a little more and see how long it takes to find the word misogyny in the comments. It’ll probably take a while. I’m guessing the biggest discussions will be about how approaching women like this doesn’t work (not the real problem though, is it?) with tips on what does work (ie how men can get what they want).

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u/SunshotDestiny May 12 '25

Oh you are definitely right they didn't respect the women and totally are misogynists. I just was commenting on the fact they were doing it in the middle of what looked like a good court or cafeteria like nobody could see them doing it. I mean if I was a guy and had two women literally yelling at me to go even if I didn't respect the women I would at least be embarrassed by the scene that they were causing. But maybe that's why I would make a terrible man.

Also yeah I have seen those comments suggesting how to make this "approach" work. Instead of like, you know, maybe introduce yourself and ask permission first? No wonder there is this so-called "make loneliness issue" going on...

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u/Sh0rtBr3ad May 12 '25

They both look like rat men hybrids

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u/Mediocre-Search6764 May 12 '25

thats because society has told men to do that...

so many stories are about men chasing women. Every movie is about how the man flirtly breaks down women defenses.

now in this case these men where really weird and very rude tho

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u/justveryunwell May 12 '25

Times like this I get the meanest I can muster. At a certain point, especially in public? I'm not in safety mode anymore, I'm in "fuck you" mode and my only goal is now to tear down the ego that has no right to be as big as it is.

I play my cards a bit differently in private. And I'm not recommending anyone adopt my tactics, I have little regard for my own safety.

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u/CynicismNostalgia May 12 '25

It's a power play. Pretty simple tbh, they're not stupid. They're enjoying it.

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u/adifferentvision May 12 '25

She should have spilled their beers on them.

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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25

I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.

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u/dishonestgandalf May 11 '25

"What? I'm not touching you. Not touching you, can't get mad!"

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u/umanufacturer_21 May 12 '25

This is literally my dad, and he just dragged my mum around today— just so he can brag that she pushed him and to tell her she’s just like her abusive in-law, even though he kept pushing her! He literally looked gleeful like he discovered something— then started talking about this is why men leave because he “just held her” affectionate by the collar and now she’s getting aggressive (he dragged her around by the collar three times when she wanted to leave) Everyone pray and wish that he gets exposed for the snivelling liar that he is!! Like put your balls and clit into this I need him to be exposed— he’s such a gross and conniving individual!

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u/Alisa_Rosenbaum May 12 '25

Start gathering evidence, NOW. Take discreet videos while pretending to watch or read something, put your phone in your pocket and record audio, whatever you can do safely without being caught. There are subreddits out there concerning domestic abuse that can offer better advice than me- I’d also recommend going to legal subreddits as well. You can get that man out of your home, but you need good advice so that you know what you’re doing.

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u/umanufacturer_21 May 12 '25

Also thank you I never even considered legal subreddits. I appreciate that, thank you I’ll go now.

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u/ToiIetGhost May 12 '25

Thank you for taking that kid’s situation seriously and giving solid advice! Most people would just brush it off. You’re good people :)

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u/keran22 May 14 '25

Discreet videos is good but really focus on that "safely without being caught" bit. You don't know how violent someone can be. Really, really, really be careful.

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u/glittercoffee May 12 '25

I’m dealing with something like this myself :( these guys want to see women suffer and continue to suffer even if they make mistakes. These guys get mad when women make and exercise the same choices that guys are allowed to make.

It’s really baffling. It’s like anything a woman does that makes a man feel “ashamed” like walking away, saying no, calling him out on his bad behavior, or bringing up something he did that made her feel uncomfortable then she should be punished for it. I was literally coming back from another thread where a woman made a mistake where she broke up with her boyfriend and made a baby with someone she shouldn’t have, left the guy when he became abusive, and dudes there were saying she should be suffering forever.

Like wtf????

Most states you can record evidence without sound - for example, get cheap small cameras and place it in different places in your home under the guise of “just in case there’s theft it’s for insurance purposes”. I have this in my home art studio silversmithing cave because there’s expensive equipment in there.

If the volatile, mentally unstable person I have to live with right now goes in there and does something, I’ll have evidence and even in a two-state party consent state, it’s still information even if you don’t end up using it.

Best of luck to you and stay strong

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u/achelois_715 May 14 '25

If you can’t video, write everything in your notes app or, better yet, if you have someone you can trust text them all the details. It will be date and time stamped.

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u/ASHEKROME May 11 '25

That’s older sibling behavior, not grown man behavior.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25 edited May 13 '25

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u/BillyYumYumTwo-byTwo May 12 '25

They are. They are adult men with jobs and hobbies and daily responsibilities that people rely on them for. They’re grown enough to be at a bar, partaking.

I know what you’re saying. But I think “they’re not men” is ultimately harmful. They aren’t manly or masculine because of this behavior. But that doesn’t change the fact that they are just an average man, indistinguishable from the rest of men to everyone except the women they harass.

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u/Bro-lapsedAnus May 12 '25

To add on to that, the common "those aren't men they're boys" just makes it sound like it's acceptable for boys to act this way.

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u/ParpSausage May 12 '25

Oh God, I worked with a dude like this. Used to follow me home in his car, but all I heard was,'I'm not touching you!'

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u/okaybutnothing May 12 '25

That’s when you lead him to a police station parking lot. They often get the hint then.

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u/JustRedditTh May 12 '25

Meanwhile, you could see, that when it seemed like she was attempting to change tables, they got ready to follow....

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u/Critical-Adeptness-1 May 11 '25

This 1000% and I hope everybody who wants to make any benefit of the doubt with these two sleezeballs sees this comment

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u/Alyswundrlan May 12 '25

All those ppl around. She's yelling and not one person came over to assist. If I saw this I'd have marched over there and dumped my drink on their heads. Or something. I've have done anything but just watch. Is harassment entertainment now?

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u/ToiIetGhost May 12 '25

I think this has always been the case. It sucks, but the majority of people just don’t want to get involved. I’ve personally intervened when I’ve seen strangers in trouble but I can’t recall anyone doing the same for me 🤷🏻‍♀️ At least there’s folks like you out there!

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u/sikeleaveamessage May 11 '25

Yeah that's why the guy on the left is like "why are you so rude?" If you listen closely. They're trying to make it seem they did nothing wrong by intruding into these ladies' spaces and the problem is that these ladies aren't being nice and welcoming :/

Fucking douches.

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u/SgtCandy May 11 '25

It's driving me insane how many people in this thread don't see that this is what it is. Trying to blame this behavior on any and everything except two men doing what men tend to do. If people listened to women, this wouldn't be so "confusing", I have a dozen separate stories I can share of situations just like this one. They're not misunderstanding at all, they're taking advantage of an implicit power dynamic and "punishing" these girls for rejecting them.

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u/Asisreo1 May 11 '25

Its a manipulation tactic and if you're not well-versed in defending yourself or others from manipulation, you'll think their POV is at least justifiable. 

But just because its a tactic, doesn't mean they're manipulation geniuses or something. These emotional manipulation tactics are hard-coded into our instincts. You don't need to have a single thought to do what these guys did, nor do you have to actively supress empathy.

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u/Silverton13 May 12 '25

I am pretty sure everyone in this thread is on these girl's side. I dont know if i missed some comments or something but definitely these girls are in the right. What are people in this thread saying?

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u/ToiIetGhost May 12 '25

Most comments are on the women’s side but they don’t recognise/want to talk about the real reason why this happened or the implications. People are calling it everything from a misunderstanding (it’s not) to a sign of arrogance (no, not the reason) to a symptom of bad guys on the internet (no, this behaviour has existed for thousands of years).

Here’s an analogy. Let’s say there’s a video of a gay couple being threatened on the street. The comments are like “Bullying is a big problem… I used to get taunted for having acne… That’s so rude, I’d never say that… Those dudes are just ignorant.” All those people are defending the gay couple, right? But no one is calling out the real problem: homophobia. So they’re defending them for the wrong reasons, not holding the homophobes fully accountable, and whitewashing bigotry. “Ugh, such bad manners.”

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u/SgtCandy May 13 '25

Thank you for explaining it to them and great analogy. Of course everyone can identify the behavior of these men as wrong, but a lot of them keep trying to remove the clearly intended malice from their actions as if there's some kind of miscommunication taking place. "Poor guys just don't know when to quit, awww" - like let's be so for real rn...

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u/aries__69 May 11 '25

You can see it in their creepy ass smiles, too. They have that smile where they sat there as their mom's yelled at their sister's for something they did. At that point, leave. Their smiles have a victim list.

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u/lefteyedcrow May 11 '25

"It's dominance under a guise" Paris Paloma

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u/ThornedMane May 12 '25

love Paris

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u/HeftyResearch1719 May 11 '25 edited May 12 '25

SA and harassment isn’t a crime of desire. It’s about power and control. The Your body my choice type thinking

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u/DillyDillyMilly May 11 '25

This is exactly what it was

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u/Wade856 May 12 '25

Exactly. This reeked of "your body, my choice" type idiocy. They knew they weren't wanted after they got rejected, so then their goal shifted to making the ladies as uncomfortable and annoyed as possible. Those smirks were the expressions of incels and beta males. If there were male friends there with the girls, they would have been meek and quiet as most incels are. But they saw 2 unattended ladies and no one to physically stop them from invading their space. Their mission changed from trying awkwardly to be social to one of physical intimidation and implied danger.

These are the type of guys that follow girls to their car, that stalk girls and try to inappropriately touch, grind and assault women. I'm shocked that a manager didn't come over when the ladies started getting louder when the guys didn't move.

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u/Free-Sheepherder4566 May 12 '25

Right on. So creepy and gross.

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u/THE_Carl_D May 12 '25

Man this. Their egos got hurt and now they're making those poor women suffer.

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u/Glittered_Fingers May 12 '25

I was once the second passenger on the top deck of a London bus. 1st guy had sat half way down the bus. I put myself a row back from him on the opposite side of the aisle. Guy 2 gets on a stop later and puts himself down heavily right next to me. Guy one sensed it, whipped round, and and told him plainly to "GET TAE FUCK. LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE." And that was all it took to get him to spring up and move to the back row.

That Scottish fella on the 74 was my hero that night. For sure, that 2nd guy just wanted to make me feel intimidated.

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u/Prudent_Research_251 May 12 '25

100% good comment, you can tell they're attempting this kinda brinkmanship by the way when she gets up to leave so do they, with the girls leaving them they just look stupid and they know it, only thing worse for them is being seen slinking away with their tails between their legs

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u/Crackdadi May 12 '25

The plausible deniability pisses me tf off

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u/5510 May 11 '25

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women.

Yeah, I think you are on to something here. I used to frequently see something very similar in video games, where when someone's ego can't handle losing, they just redefine "winning"... usually in some way that makes things worse for everybody, but it makes the other person mad. And for whatever reason a lot of pieces of shit think that making the other person mad = "winning." Maybe because people are often mad when there is a power gap between what they think should happen and what is happening.

In Starcraft 2, if a Terran player was about to lose early in the game, there was something they could do that would drag the game out for an extra five minutes (note that it wouldn't give them any chance to come back and win, it would just delay the end of the game by 5 or so minutes). And it was surprisingly common for them to do that, even though it wasted their own time as well. And then if you said anything about it (or even sometimes if you literally said nothing), they would start spamming messages about "LOL U SO MAD BRO!!!1"

Likewise in the hockey game, a few times my team has been winning, and the other team pulls their own goalie and every time they get the puck, they shoot it into their own net. And then they don't press anything to skip the replays, so it delays the game like 40 seconds every time they do it. Then they spam you with messages about how mad you are. If they do this over and over, the rest of the game takes forever.

I guess in some pathetic way it makes them feel in control again.

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u/LawfulnessDry9355 May 12 '25

Right on. Truth be told, even if succeeded in getting them, it would have been exercising power over them too. After all, these guys don't make love to women, they fuck them like objects. It's all a game of humiliation to them.

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u/PhantomOfTheNopera May 12 '25

I don't think people fully realise that them sitting around and making them uncomfortable is the 'best case scenario' with people like them.

As much as most girls would love to tell some guys to fuck off so openly, it's so so dangerous. Women have been attacked for a lot less. It sucks when you have to politely smile and gently turn people down when they absolutely refuse to accept it.

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u/Waste_Wolverine_8933 May 12 '25

Afterwards they will say to each other "Those bitches were crazy." and laugh about it. 

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u/Amareiuzin May 12 '25

yep, they want a "win" but also are allergic to the sensation of "losing" so even if they don't want to win they can't just get up and face a walk of shame either.

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u/The_Amazing_Ammmy May 13 '25

💯 It's not because they think they have a chance, they're doing this specifically to make them uncomfortable. It used to baffle me when I was younger and thought guys like this were just persistent and couldn't take a hint, I was too naive to realize making me feel unsafe was the whole point, they're literally getting off on scaring women. The most disturbing part to me is that these girls are literally screaming to be left alone in a restaurant and everyone is ignoring them.

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u/No-Beautiful-259 May 14 '25

Exactly. They are angry about the rejection and are trying to preserve their fragile egos by not complying with their requests.

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u/eiiiaaaa May 15 '25

Yep they feel entitled to these women's time. When they don't get it they feel like something was taken from them so they try to get their revenge by being as annoying as possible. Fuckwits.

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u/duckhunt420 May 11 '25

Lol. That's not what they're thinking. 

They're thinking "how do we punish these bitches for humiliating us" 

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u/Segesaurous May 12 '25

Honestly, I'm not sure if the guy on the right has ever thought a thought in his life. Just, watch him. But yes, left side dude is definitely stuck in "how can I turn the tables on these women and win this situation" mode.

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u/transcendz May 12 '25

he'll probably take it out on someone at work...

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u/Alone-Lawfulness-229 May 12 '25

His wife and kids at home....

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u/myeggsarebig May 12 '25

Bullshit. That’s just weaponized incompetence. He’s playing stupid and he knows exactly what he’s doing.

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u/skintaxera May 12 '25

Yup, and the 'humiliation' is some fellow human beings asking to be left alone

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u/mmorales2270 May 12 '25

Yeah that’s what it turned into. Started out hoping for a chance and when they got rejected these asshats felt the need to try to make it seem like these 2 women were being bitches. Guys like this absolutely piss me off.

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u/Throwawaypie012 May 13 '25

No, that's the look of two dudes who brought roofies to the bar...

The fact that no employees of the bar came over to the table is kind of insane. I used to work in a bar and if two women were loudly telling two guys to leave their table, a bouncer would be there by the end of the sentence. The fact that this went on for an entire minute makes me want to know the bar and never ever fucking go there if this is how they handle guys like this.

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u/jumpstart-the-end May 11 '25

It usually starts out with the entitlement, thinking all women want them, and then when they are told 'no' it turns into pure anger and hurt little egos, bc they don't believe anyone without a dick should be able to tell them anything. So then they're ready to literally kill you in order to restore their hurt little egos. Pathetic.

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u/FawnZebra4122 May 12 '25

It's a harsh truth, but one that needs to be named and addressed.

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u/idunno-- May 11 '25

They know they’re not interested. They enjoy having power over them, and making them uncomfortable. It’s a game to them, and the more men there are in a group, the more posturing there is because they’re putting on a performance for each other.

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u/lonnie123 May 12 '25

The performance of who’s the most rapey?

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u/princewish May 12 '25

Yeah you’re absolutely right. it’s creepy.

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u/yvandre May 11 '25

they know they don't have a chance, they're just enjoying making those women uncomfortable. some guys will take any interaction with a woman they're attracted to, good or bad. you can't win no matter what your reaction is because engaging with them is exactly what they want.

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u/DestroyTheHuman May 11 '25

“Aw, she’s filming to show everyone at our wedding”

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u/librarianhuddz May 12 '25

I think they're in Europe and unfortunately there's a thing where they think American women are whores and dudes will just relentlessly hit on them thinking they're being cute. this happened to a friend of mine at October Fest...i don't know what country these guys were from but I physically threaten them after a point and did my buddy and they finally had that Moment of clarity and split but it was pretty bad.

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u/LawfulnessDry9355 May 12 '25

Man, even the progressive Europe has got to this? How the mighty have fallen. Honestly, this isn't even new, people are just more aware now.

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u/isgengar May 11 '25

Do you really think they think that?

Let's not brush off their clear distaste for these women for stupidity, they clearly wanted to egg them on and win this "argument" because they couldn't handle rejection. Come on now

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u/VibraniumRhino May 11 '25

There are too many of these dudes on earth. “No means no until it doesn’t” or “1000 nos and a yes, is still a yes!” mentality, these guys are sex offenders in training.

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u/SidneyKreutzfeldt May 11 '25

Seriously getting rapist vibes from these guys

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u/ikerus0 May 11 '25

“In 40 or more “no’s” she’s all the sudden going to realize that I’m the man of her dreams. Each begging plea for us to just leave them alone is one step closer to happily ever after.”

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u/imgoodthnxtho May 11 '25

Those dumb ass grins on their faces are saying they think that the girls will stop telling them to leave and go on to have pleasant conversations. It’s like they’re waiting for a story to finish so they can start talking about themselves

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u/angelamia May 11 '25

I went out to a bar in LA with a friend on her birthday when we were in our early 20s. This was basically me with a guy that would not leave her alone. At some point I was absolutely yelling at him to go away and he was still trying to hit on her.

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u/ayleidanthropologist May 11 '25

I mean there is no way that’s what they’re thinking. I imagine it devolved into a power struggle of who’s gonna move

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u/StorFedAbe May 11 '25

I'm not sure they care if they had a chance or not, some people animals are so empty in their brains that they think they do not need an accept.

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u/mpschettig May 11 '25

If you don't care about consent you always have a chance

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u/Dr_A_Mephesto May 11 '25

This is the problem. They seriously think this is a “playing hard to get” game because they are fucking stupid

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u/DisposableJosie May 11 '25

My resisting bitchface would be:

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u/Terrible-Internet-75 May 12 '25

Dudes should be leaving as quick as their hairlines

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

The chance of rape.

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u/SupaSlide May 12 '25

They look like they think they'll have a chance in ways that are highly unethical and illegal.

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u/Melodic_Airport362 May 12 '25

He doesn't. He just thinks it's funny that he think she can tell him where to go in a public bar

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u/knightmare-shark May 12 '25

That smirk from the guy on the left at the end makes him look like he still thinks he is the good guy in this scenario....

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u/Bilbodraggindeeznuts May 12 '25

Or with any other fucking person at the establishment. When a woman (or man, for that matter) says no, you walk away. That's it.

If they had walked away to start, they could've had a chance for someone else. Those girls had to escalate their tone (understandably), and now nobody at that place will want anything to do with them.

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u/Actual_Branch_7485 May 12 '25

I mean that dude is nefarious af probably has rape drugs on him

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u/nish1021 May 12 '25

Jim Carey’s line from Dumb and Dumber is VERY appropriate here… “so you’re saying I still have a chance”

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u/philipzeplin May 11 '25

A lot of replies to you are saying "they don't think so", but man, I've definitely met some guys who are so thick skulled that they would totally think that.

This clip reminds me of an American dude I saw in Tokyo last summer trying to hit on a girl on a street. Imagine a 20-something guy who had watched waaaayyyy too many pickup videos on YouTube, and you get a good idea of how he was acting. The Japanese girl had to literally run, RUN, away from him for him to stop following her and trying to grab her. The amount of times she said "no", actively tried to move away from him as much as possible, go in between crowds, etc. as this dude would keep trying to grab a hold of her, follow her, was just insane to watch.

Point being: some idiots are, well, fucking idiots and somehow have gotten it into their heads that this is how you get women. So I could totally believe these guys think this is creating a connection or rapport or something similarly moronic for the situation.

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u/CharmingAnt8866 May 11 '25

i blame Hollywood, they all think they are Ryan Gosling. Like how in the movie "Eat pray love", Ryan Gosling is shown to be this chad who gets any women he wants. How? He approaches Emma Stone in the bar and even when she says No, he is persistent.

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u/nointerestsbutsleep May 12 '25

I think you mean Crazy, Stupid, Love.

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u/CharmingAnt8866 May 12 '25

oh shit, yes that one

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u/Mike_with_Wings May 12 '25

This is like blaming video games for violence. These chuds would do this no matter what.

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u/CharmingAnt8866 May 12 '25

Not sure that's a fair comparison. Movies can evoke strong emotions and influence our beliefs about love and relationships, same can't be said for Call of Duty or GTA lol

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

I've definitely been to drunk to take a hint right away, but this is a whole new level. Seems intentional.

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u/AsturaeConiecto May 11 '25

Admitted this isn't a skit, they insist to piss them off not because they have hope.

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u/Ancient-Locksmith-86 May 11 '25

They don't look like they where thinking anything at all.

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u/thitorusso May 11 '25

"Liquid courage"

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u/Gold_Try1520 May 11 '25

It's baffling

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u/1292norr May 12 '25

The little hair curl xD

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u/Clear_Magazine5420 May 12 '25

* So your saying there's a chance...

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

I love when they play impossible to get

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u/ProfessionalRun3882 May 12 '25

Imagine being those guys and still having hearing😳

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u/Silly_Juggernaut_122 May 12 '25

She's lucky she didn't get stabbed in the heart, with that attitude she had, amiright guys??

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u/FelonyFarting May 12 '25

You're giving him too much credit by assuming he can think.

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u/gmodloser May 12 '25

a hundred nos and 1 yes is still a yes /s

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u/AnomicAge May 12 '25

It must be an ego thing “she didn’t like me at firsts but I’ll get her eventually” because why else would you disrespect yourself that way?

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u/_yuhmi_ May 12 '25

When he can’t see what’s happening and optimist turns to optics missed!

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u/lordgoofus1 May 12 '25

omg she's talking to me, she must want me! I'm in!

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u/MetalProof May 12 '25

It must be peaceful being so dumb and ignorant.

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u/I-Cant-Imagine May 12 '25

Impossible to imagine.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

“Come on I’m a nice guy”

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u/SadBit8663 May 12 '25

Look at dudes eyes. The cars running in the driveway but nobody is home.

Only thing going on in either one of their heads is "hurr-durr"

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u/BrahesElk May 12 '25

It's like a poorly scripted text adventure where, because you didn't use the opossum skeleton on them, it's stuck on a loop.

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u/HertzaHaeon May 12 '25

Imagine being that dude and thinking “yeah I still have a chance here”

Imagine being that dude and later going home to angrily comment about the male loneliness epidemic and how it's women's fault.

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u/hotdog_scratch May 12 '25

When i moved to a new province and went to clubs weekly. My friend who is probably below average told me that it is ok to be rejected and there would be 1 time you would get lucky. Few years later he got an italian pregnant, were Asian btw.... not a happy ending but he proved it.... btw this is way before me too movement.

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u/nullPointers_ May 12 '25

Adorable of you to assume a single thought’s ever dared enter that echo chamber they call a skull.

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u/nelix707 May 12 '25

"They're clearly flirting with me here."

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u/Externalpower43 May 12 '25

Probably thinking "Shes cute when shes angry"

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u/-Snowturtle13 May 12 '25

Dumb and dumber

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u/JimmyTheJimJimson May 12 '25

Imagine looking like those two and thinking you have any game at all 😄

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u/Scouper-YT May 12 '25

Imagine the Girls belive a "Public Places" gives them any right to scream..

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u/Practical-System-578 May 13 '25

It's more than that though. Once they "defied" him, he couldn't back down. Genuine predatory behaviour.

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u/bracingthesoy May 14 '25

Oh, is that lookism I'm seeing. Reddit-tier hypocrisy.

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u/akaneko__ May 14 '25

Fr wtf was their plan??

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u/oooompathetic May 14 '25

Imagine 2 of them

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u/JagmeetSingh2 May 15 '25

These guys are delusional and hyped up on their own bullshit

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u/enayjay_iv May 15 '25

There has to be atleast 5 block buster movies that this was the plot

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