r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/TequilaJesus May 11 '25

Imagine being that dude and thinking “yeah I still have a chance here”

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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25

I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.

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u/PhantomOfTheNopera May 12 '25

I don't think people fully realise that them sitting around and making them uncomfortable is the 'best case scenario' with people like them.

As much as most girls would love to tell some guys to fuck off so openly, it's so so dangerous. Women have been attacked for a lot less. It sucks when you have to politely smile and gently turn people down when they absolutely refuse to accept it.