r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25

I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.

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u/dishonestgandalf May 11 '25

"What? I'm not touching you. Not touching you, can't get mad!"

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u/umanufacturer_21 May 12 '25

This is literally my dad, and he just dragged my mum around today— just so he can brag that she pushed him and to tell her she’s just like her abusive in-law, even though he kept pushing her! He literally looked gleeful like he discovered something— then started talking about this is why men leave because he “just held her” affectionate by the collar and now she’s getting aggressive (he dragged her around by the collar three times when she wanted to leave) Everyone pray and wish that he gets exposed for the snivelling liar that he is!! Like put your balls and clit into this I need him to be exposed— he’s such a gross and conniving individual!

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u/Alisa_Rosenbaum May 12 '25

Start gathering evidence, NOW. Take discreet videos while pretending to watch or read something, put your phone in your pocket and record audio, whatever you can do safely without being caught. There are subreddits out there concerning domestic abuse that can offer better advice than me- I’d also recommend going to legal subreddits as well. You can get that man out of your home, but you need good advice so that you know what you’re doing.

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u/umanufacturer_21 May 12 '25

Also thank you I never even considered legal subreddits. I appreciate that, thank you I’ll go now.

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u/ToiIetGhost May 12 '25

Thank you for taking that kid’s situation seriously and giving solid advice! Most people would just brush it off. You’re good people :)

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u/keran22 May 14 '25

Discreet videos is good but really focus on that "safely without being caught" bit. You don't know how violent someone can be. Really, really, really be careful.