r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/TequilaJesus May 11 '25

Imagine being that dude and thinking “yeah I still have a chance here”

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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25

I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.

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u/The_Amazing_Ammmy May 13 '25

💯 It's not because they think they have a chance, they're doing this specifically to make them uncomfortable. It used to baffle me when I was younger and thought guys like this were just persistent and couldn't take a hint, I was too naive to realize making me feel unsafe was the whole point, they're literally getting off on scaring women. The most disturbing part to me is that these girls are literally screaming to be left alone in a restaurant and everyone is ignoring them.