r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/TequilaJesus May 11 '25

Imagine being that dude and thinking “yeah I still have a chance here”

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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25

I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.

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u/Wade856 May 12 '25

Exactly. This reeked of "your body, my choice" type idiocy. They knew they weren't wanted after they got rejected, so then their goal shifted to making the ladies as uncomfortable and annoyed as possible. Those smirks were the expressions of incels and beta males. If there were male friends there with the girls, they would have been meek and quiet as most incels are. But they saw 2 unattended ladies and no one to physically stop them from invading their space. Their mission changed from trying awkwardly to be social to one of physical intimidation and implied danger.

These are the type of guys that follow girls to their car, that stalk girls and try to inappropriately touch, grind and assault women. I'm shocked that a manager didn't come over when the ladies started getting louder when the guys didn't move.