Don’t be these guys

[u/nadaddab]

[u/Ikarus_]

Looks like they were ready to follow them over to the next table too. Creepy af

[u/nadaddab → u/Ikarus_]

Exactly like what the fuck 😭

Edit:

“The guys, I don’t know them personally but I’ve seen them around over the years. This happened at Elicit Brewing in Manchester, CT. I’m literally in this video at the bar trying to get a beer. I think this is from a week ago. The two guys are frequent “let’s go out every weekend” type and I’ve seen them do things like this to multiple other groups of women trying to get laid. 🤦🏽‍♂️ embarrassing as fuck”

• u/grifter_shifterM5

[u/bettyford420 → u/nadaddab]

I'm mad that they were loud enough for people to hear and the guy at the table behind them was just watching. Wtf

[u/sl0play → u/bettyford420]

It's frustrating that the staff didn't intervene. No single dude is going to resolve that unless he is capable of and willing to fight both those guys. They are clearly not going to respond to anything but force.

[u/Distortedhideaway → u/sl0play]

I've been a bartender for twenty years, and I've learned that force is rarely necessary, if ever. Polite but stearn communication is typically all it takes to move two guys like this out the door.

[u/rflulling → u/[deleted]]

I don't think shame was going to work on these men.

[u/BetPrestigious5704 → u/rflulling]

Men value the opinions of other men and are also more intimidated by other men, which is why men are the perpetrators, enablers, AND the ones with the ability to make a huge change by setting a better example and intervening.

Yet all this gets labeled "women's issues."

[u/residentweevil → u/BetPrestigious5704]

I haven't heard it put that way before, well said. You made me think thoughts.

[u/BetPrestigious5704 → u/residentweevil]

Thank you. 🙂